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Q: I Need Help Asap, I Dont Know If I Need a Doctor!???
asked by: Pedro on December 15th, 2005
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Ok hello guys. This is my first time in this website I decided to sign up since I have a little ''problem''...

Iam 14 year old, I lost my virginity at 13 years old. At my first sexual times with a girl, it took hours for me to get an irection.

And if I did, it wasnt hard enough to penetrate the girl. And it would go away in seconds. After a long time I finally go it to a point and penetrated her and messed no problem.

2nd girl, got it up, but went away fast. Could penetrate her, nothing happened.

3rd girl, trouble getting it up to a point where I could penetrate her. Btu after a long while or her ''working'' on me. And after putting on various condoms and taking them off doo too not being hard enough. I finally had sex with her.

4th girl (happened 2 days ago)

when I was at ehr house, for the first hour I was there it was all good. We were making out. My dick was perking. But when we got naked, my dick would erect. :( and if it did, same problem woud go away fast...

So I tell her I was nervos and will do it tomorrow

fast forward the next day at her house. Same problem we are naked, no irection. And I even worked on myself for at least 30 minutes. Still same problem couldnt get it to a point where I could penetrate her.

There were times I thought iw as rock hard, btu tehn putting on the condom and gettnig in position took like 15 seconds. And by that time, my erection was going down.

Im not shure if I need medical atention or if its all in my head. When im by myself and masturbate this never happens.

I dont know, I dont really want to take pills.

Ive been reading about this book called : scientific guaranteed male multiple orgasms and ultimate sex, by: alan ritz.

In the book description alan ritz talks about how his book will make you get a rock hard irection for a long time dude to his sucesfull exersizes. But I dont know if when he says exersizes he means takng medications, because I dont want to do that...

So I want you guys opinions.

Also another thing is, that when I was with my ex gf (she was way more beatiful then any of teh otehr girls ive been with and had ''problems'')i never had trouble getting it up. Form the moment she touched me I was rocketing. We never did medical question tho, but from my memories of her. I was always with arock hard erection with her.

Please guys feedback...I dont know if iam messed up and need to see a doctor about this very imbarassing mattter..Please guys feedback...
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Pedro
replied on December 15th, 2005
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Please help me with some feedback im going nuts and frustrated....Whats wrong with me?
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Human
replied on December 15th, 2005
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Ok
Well the fact that you have no problem masterbating is a clear indicator that it's all in your head. The problem is that this subconscience kinda stuff is a b*tch to deal with. You just need to relax and not sweat it so much. Just remember dealing with mental issues like these takes time. Even if you are fully relaxed next time you could still have problems, it's only after you've stopped caring (like literally getting to the point where you dont give a rats *ss) about what your dick is doing that it will spring up on it's own.
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Pedro
replied on December 15th, 2005
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Ive got some responses from people saying that since im a teenager, this should be happenning to me...So do you think they are wrong?

I really do wish its all in my head and I dont have to go through the imbarasment of telling my dad then going to my doctor...

So I can relax? And does masturbating too much have anything to do with it?
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Pedro
replied on December 15th, 2005
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Please guys answer my questions, I need more then one response please guys ibeg of you..
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oopoopoop
replied on December 15th, 2005
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Well, maybe your dick is more intelligent than you are?

Why are you, at age 14, going around trying to have sex with all these apparently different girls? Who are they? Do you have any emotional life whatever? Maybe your body is telling you that, whatever you think is cool, this is not what you should be doing.

Then again, maybe it's telling you that you don't really want to have sex with girls. Stick to wanking for a few more years, that's my advice.
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ProZackMI
replied on December 15th, 2005
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pedro wrote:
please guys answer my questions, I need more then one response please guys ibeg of you..



you could be gay. Young, confused, and unsure. Common problem with gay teens. I haven't heard of many straight 14 yo boys who can't get it up for any reason.
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cd998776
replied on December 15th, 2005
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K, man, don't worry about it; you're young. If you've read through any of the threads here, guys as old as 18-20 have trouble cumming or maintaining their erection because of nerves; and that's what I would attribute your problem to.

Are you under any stress or on any medication? This might also have an effect.

You might just want to prolong the time before sex as long as possible (ie: foreplay.).
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Human
replied on December 16th, 2005
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poopoopoo wrote:
well, maybe your penis is more intelligent than you are?


Why are you, at age 14, going around trying to have sex with all these apparently different girls? Who are they? Do you have any emotional life whatever? Maybe your body is telling you that, whatever you think is cool, this is not what you should be doing.


Then again, maybe it's telling you that you don't really want to have sex with girls. Stick to wanking for a few more years, that's my advice.


since when did guys need to be emotionally attached to have sex?

As for the gay idea
you said your fine while watching porn right? Hetero porn? If so def nervousness. Your not physically damaged.
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Pedro
replied on December 16th, 2005
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It is not getting my irection that is a problem. Its keeping it up thats the problem.

I am not gay.

Please help
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Pedro
replied on December 16th, 2005
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Do you guys know about that book? : Amazon.De/exec/obidos/asin/159800168x/303- 8070094-1437834

do you guys thiat will help?
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perfectdiamond19
replied on December 16th, 2005
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prozackmi wrote:
pedro wrote:
please guys answer my questions, I need more then one response please guys ibeg of you..



you could be gay. Young, confused, and unsure. Common problem with gay teens. I haven't heard of many straight 14 yo boys who can't get it up for any reason.


ok I am a female and I do not think this is fair to say. Maybe you are not comfortable with yourself. True most 14 year old boys would be ready to abng the hell out of it. But you may not be ready. Now I am twenty and have no room to say this except for I have a son , so here I go you are why to young to be having sex. For girls please think of all the nasty things out there sweetie. And babies can be made at 14.
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cd998776
replied on December 16th, 2005
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I'm telling you.... It's just nerves....
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