Hi I had a baby a month ago and she past away shortly after birth she had a lot of problems she had muticysic renal dyplasia. They weren't sure it was gentic. Well I got the report back and it says it's sporidic thing that happens and there is nothing you can do about it. Well next week I see the gentic counslor to ttalk about everything. I haven't taking birth control or have had my preiod yet. I have been afriad to have sex because I don;t want this happen again. Well I had sex last night no procetion this moring I took 2 birth control pills I don't know what to do! I'm scared I don't know what to do I just don't want this so happen again help!