Remember that your body is very special, and when you decide to offer it to a man, you should be sure that he is worth the sacrifice. So many young girls think they need to give sex to keep their boyfriends, but most times in the end, that is the fastest way to lose them. They need to respect you, and if you don't respect yourself, how can they? When you can get a man to care for you, and not what's between your legs, then you have accomplished something wonderful, and that will make sex well worth it in the end. Just look around at all the single women there are in the world. Many have regrets about the men they wasted their virginity on, and you will still find a great deal of men that are uncomfortable about settling down with "a woman with a past." good luck, and I sure hope you save it for the right one! Being a virgin is something to be proud of, and if you start having sex now so young, it will be really hard for you to stop with others in the future. Giving in to urges like this can result in low self esteem hen you find out that mr. Wonderful wasn't so wonderful after all.