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Q: Still a Virgin But Debating On It Please Help
asked by: confussed15 on December 13th, 2005
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I have know this a guy named aaron for about a year I am only 15 about to be 16 (on december 27) and he is 18. I really like him and he acts like he likes me but I want to get more intimate with him...I am being put on birth control in a week so that when my birthday comes I can be safe (don't worry I will also use a condom) I just want some advice if I am doing the right thing I have always believed in abstinence but this guy is something different....And advice or comment???

Sincerely, confused
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Human
replied on December 15th, 2005
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Well if you think this guy is special and if you guys like each other a lot sex would be an option. For your first time you should be with someone that actually cares about you thats really all that matters. Just remember for a large majority of girls sex the first time isn't that great it even hurts but after awhile it becomes the greatest thing ever.
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Mike2236
replied on February 1st, 2006
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Human posted: 12-15-05 8:18am post subject:

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well if you think this guy is special and if you guys like each other a lot sex would be an option. For your first time you should be with someone that actually cares about you thats really all that matters. Just remember for a large majority of girls sex the first time isn't that great it even hurts but after awhile it becomes the greatest thing ever.

Yes this is true and you will also remember your first time having sex, so make sure he really means alot to you. Good luck
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Mike2236
replied on February 1st, 2006
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Human posted: 12-15-05 8:18am post subject:

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well if you think this guy is special and if you guys like each other a lot sex would be an option. For your first time you should be with someone that actually cares about you thats really all that matters. Just remember for a large majority of girls sex the first time isn't that great it even hurts but after awhile it becomes the greatest thing ever.

Yes this is true and you will also remember your first time having sex, so make sure he really means alot to you. Good luck
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holidaycheer01
replied on February 1st, 2006
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Just make sure you're 100% sure its what you want. My first time I waited until I was 21....And ended up doing it with a guy I really liked but we broke up like 3 weeks later. I regretted it afterwards. It wasnt even worth it....So like I said, make sure its right for you.
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Morning_Glory
replied on March 14th, 2006
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You are not yet sixteen. There are going to be alot of guys that will come into your life. Some you will have very strong feelings for and some you won't. At the moment your hormones are ruling your thought process.

If the guy really loves and cares about you he will wait til you are a bit older (like eighteen). Also he will show he cares about you thru his actions like not pestering you to do anything sexually that you do not feel ready to do.

You don't want to do something now at this young age that will regret later because you thought this guy was special and found out later he wasn't. So give the relationship some time and really get to know each other with your clothes on.
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rightside
replied on April 6th, 2006
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Remember that your body is very special, and when you decide to offer it to a man, you should be sure that he is worth the sacrifice. So many young girls think they need to give sex to keep their boyfriends, but most times in the end, that is the fastest way to lose them. They need to respect you, and if you don't respect yourself, how can they? When you can get a man to care for you, and not what's between your legs, then you have accomplished something wonderful, and that will make sex well worth it in the end. Just look around at all the single women there are in the world. Many have regrets about the men they wasted their virginity on, and you will still find a great deal of men that are uncomfortable about settling down with "a woman with a past." good luck, and I sure hope you save it for the right one! Being a virgin is something to be proud of, and if you start having sex now so young, it will be really hard for you to stop with others in the future. Giving in to urges like this can result in low self esteem hen you find out that mr. Wonderful wasn't so wonderful after all.
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rightside
replied on April 6th, 2006
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Remember that your body is very special, and when you decide to offer it to a man, you should be sure that he is worth the sacrifice. So many young girls think they need to give sex to keep their boyfriends, but most times in the end, that is the fastest way to lose them. They need to respect you, and if you don't respect yourself, how can they? When you can get a man to care for you, and not what's between your legs, then you have accomplished something wonderful, and that will make sex well worth it in the end. Just look around at all the single women there are in the world. Many have regrets about the men they wasted their virginity on, and you will still find a great deal of men that are uncomfortable about settling down with "a woman with a past." good luck, and I sure hope you save it for the right one! Being a virgin is something to be proud of, and if you start having sex now so young, it will be really hard for you to stop with others in the future. Giving in to urges like this can result in low self esteem hen you find out that mr. Wonderful wasn't so wonderful after all.
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