Probably not. You have not completely healed, there is an increased chance of infection. Sex can wait...Don't risk your life! That is the only body god gives, take care of it. If he can't deal with that, then shame on him.

i don't see what would be wrong with oral sex.
You could give him the old hand job, if I were you I wouldn't have anyother sex other than that for the time being, it's just to soon.

Just my 2 cents.

2 weeks after my vaginal hysterectomy, I had this intense longing for my husband. For almost a week we played around both orally and touching each other until we couldn't stand it and he literally slipped in. I can't tell you of the ramifications for it just happened this evening, thus i'm up and worried about it. I'm ashamed to tell my doctor but I feel I probably better. Has anyone had intercourse after 3 weeks, did anything happen because of it. I wish we wouldn't have begun "teasing" each other, I even suggested we start sleeping in seperate beds. Geez, will the next 3 weeks ever get here???