I've been married for a little more than a
year, and I was a virgin when I got
married. I'm 20 and my husband is 33,
but he's only been with about 4 other
women in his life (sexually, that is)
the problem is, i'm completely numb
inside. Even when I mastrubate myself
with a vibrator, i'm numb. I can't find
the g-spot. The only way i've been able
to orgasm is through clitoral stimulation,
but even then, its really difficult and
takes a lot of effort. I have to lie in
just the right position, with the blankets
just right, etc.
What can I do?
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tasha82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2005 Posts: 112
Posted: 12-12-05 21:52pm
Most women don't orgasm without clitoral
stimulation. It is possible, but it
usually takes practice. The g-spot can
be tricky to find, especially if you're
not very aroused. Make sure you spend
plenty of time on foreplay. The more
aroused you are, the easier it is to find
the g-spot. When you do find it, try
applying a lot of pressure to it.
If you want to orgasm more easily, try to
take your mind off it. If you're
thinking about reaching orgasm and
wondering how long it will take, it will
make it more difficult. Try to just
enjoy yourself without concentrating on
the end result. Good luck :)
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munky23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 130
Posted: 12-19-05 13:01pm
You might need to see a sex therapist on
this one.
Part could be psychological or emotional.
Some women have problems reaching orgasms.
Try different methods to get more aroused
before sex and more foreplay. Make sure
your really aroused and wet before he
pentrates.
