Hi, I don't agree with your dentist that nothing can be done, so I am glad that you are searching for a tmj specialist. Almost everyone has a jaw out of line whether that's just slightly to bad. Our bodies have learned and adjusted to the little quirks we physically have. That's what makes the human body so absolutely amazing. So, I want you to forget what this dentist told you and work with a new dentist, someone educated in taking care of tmj problems.
If you are in pain now or have pain later, remember the suggestions I made about moist heat. Don't hesitate to ask your doctor for a low dose of valium to take at night for a few weeks. You might want to get involved in some sort of relaxation therapy like yoga or go to weekly or bi-weekly deep tissue massage therapy (with a tmj knowledgable therapist). Other therapy in pressure point and myofascial release are also excellent to try. If you are under a lot of stress right now, and who isn't, ask your doctor about taking an anti-depressant that regulates seratonin levels in your body. Not only do these anti-depressants have a calming effect on the body but reduce tmj pain, I do not fib!
There are many other suggestions I can give to you also if you are interested. If you have trouble finding a good tmj specialist in your area, let me know and i'll post a couple of very reputable websites that have lists of doctors all over the country by locations.
I do want to stress, that if the tmj started because of the wisdom teeth being pulled, i'm pretty confident that if you are able to get all the muscles to relax and stabilize, you might be able to get the disc back into joint. True, it might not work, but a positive attitude can't hurt.
Oh, the bite splint should be the next major step you take once you find the tmj doctor for you. You don't want to put that off too much, though, so I hope you find the perfect doctor soon.
Keep in contact with the health boards. The support they give to us tmj sufferers is so needed. But don't let people who are too negative get to you. I was serious when I said a positive attitude is important to combat tmj's pain.
I do hope and pray that all will work out for you. Let me know how you are doing. If you have any questions, please feel free to post them. Someone will answer and help you and if you need to ask me a specific question, sent me a personal message, no problem. Take care of yourself. Use that moist heat when in pain (and ibuprofen) and get some good sleep if you can.
Carol