Joined: 10 Dec 2005 Posts: 2 Location: north Carolina
I'm 14 Years Old And Pregnant Help? Posted: 12-10-05 11:07am
I have a boyfriend whois 18 and we were
seeing each other for about a year now.
He would tell me I want u too have my
baby. I never thought about it, but all
the while we were having unprotected sex
and he when he would ejaculate he always
came in me. I loved him so much. He
got me pregnant and he was happy, I was
too. Then I lost it then both of us was
sad. Then I got pregnant again right
now i'm 2 months and having morning
sickness, constipation, cramps, and feels
like every symptom in the book. My
whole family knows and now he's putting me
down with some cruel words and telling me
kill dat piece of trash, but I don't want
to kill my baby it hurt me the first time.
My mom says I have to getout her house
if I have it and live with my daddy. I
don't want to so I guess I have to get an
abortion like what she wants... I just
don't want to kill my baby it's gonna
really hurt me but I didn't told her that.
I just don't know what to do. I'm
not really scared, but i'm very mature for
my age I make good grades and i'm in all
honors classes. I just feel like I made
this my responsibility so why should I
throw it away? :cry: :twisted: i'm so
freakin piss!
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mommy2B06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2005 Posts: 150 Location: Texas
Posted: 12-10-05 11:16am
Sounds like to me that you dont want to
kill your baby and I dont think you
should. If you think that you can make it
in this world with a baby then you need to
have it. Your boyfriend or your mom dont
have to live the rest of their lives with
the guilty feeling that you will have to
live with. There are tons of people on
here that will help you get through this.
Just dont have an abortion because they
want you to. Do what you want to. If
your mother really loves and cares for you
like mother are suppose to then she will
get over it and help you in any way that
she can. Im here for you to talk to. My
name is christy..Im 18 and 36 1/2 weeks
pregnant.
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yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
Posted: 12-10-05 19:08pm
My mom told me the same thing. Actually
she had already kicked me out for partying
to much and I was living with my dad (or
suppose to b I was actually at my
boyfriends) when I got pregnant. I moved
back with my mom and she told me if I
didnt get rid of it I would have to move
back out but I stood my ground and she
caved to the beautiful face of her
granddaughter. Imoved out with my husband
now im sorry some guys are asses and yours
doesnt support u. What will your dad say?
If hes supportive and u dont want to deal
with the drama just move in with him. Im
not sure what the law is since u have a
dad to go live with but legally you are
your guardians responisbility til u are
18. (its the just like u cant move out
without her consent til you are 18 but
backwards) and no matter how many times
someone tries to make u have an abortion
as long as u tell the nurse who asks u to
consent that u are not there on your own
free will they cant do the procedure.
Good luck
I think you'd be a cold hearted edit if
you got pregnant on purpose & got an
abortion..
Thats what makes teen pregnancy look bad,
people overlook the teens that actually
try, because theres little girls getting
knocked up on purpose & not taking the
responsibility.
You got yourself in the situation, so just
deal with it.
