I have never done it nor have me n my partner ever spoke about it but i do not in any way understand how people can judge people who want to ! to say its 'disgusting' is just a bit far fetch , comon! dont be such a prude, its such a common thing these days and if it brings a couple closer to one another id rather be in that relationship than anything else. Go for it I say:) also there are website where you can advertise it Im sure, you can get to know the man/women and im sure they have to be tested as well!
I dont think i could do it with someone i know so yeah i would google it or something
Everyone to their own i say

I don't think its disgusting, but i am only doing 3somes as a single person i would never bring that into my marriage, but i enjoy doing it with married people that are willing since i am single right now!

I just had my first with my wife. It went well. We talked about it for a year before hand and we talked about what went right/wrong afterword. Its weird in the sense that we never thought we'd be these type of people; you know, the swinging type. We would never consider another guy but doing another girl works for us. If your relationship is strong and secure enough, give it a try. If you don't like it, don't do it again. If one encounter snowballs to ruin your marriage, your marriage was very weak to begin with.

Oh yeah, to answer your question, we found our hot young thang at a gay club. I started dancing with her and we asked her and her gay male friend over. We seduced her to bed while her gay friend chilled out with one our gay freinds (who accompanied us to club). We tried a straight club/bar before and it was a disaster. Gay clubs seem to be the way to go.

Not every married person is monogamous. There are actually whole groups of people who believe that love is not limited to just one person. There are also those that believe sex is not love.

for all of you who think threesomes are disgusting, then why are you looking it up online? My husband and I are considering a threesome, but alas we are also having problems finding the right person. It takes time to find someone that both of you are okay with, and can click sexually with. Yes, there is a lot that you have to talk about before you go into it. I suggest that while you and your partner are having sex, to bring in suggestions such as "while i do etc...imagine another person doing etc." if you can imagine it and still like the idea than go for it. but just make sure you do find the right person or persons. and if you think its disgusting, then your just insecure with yourself. humans are sexual by nature. you see a pretty girl or sexy guy walk down the street, your going to have a reaction. whether your in a relationship or not.

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One person said this is disgusting. A lot of people said it's risky, and it is. For everyone who has a great relationship where outside partners are brought in regularly, there are two people who are monogamous with someone else after a threesome destroyed their relationship. You can imagine you're a smarter, more mature, more confident or just less hung-up than others but you aren't really going to know until there's a third person in bed with you. And your partner won't know. Threesomes and orgies are really a Pandora's Box. You have way of knowing what comes out of it.

If you're determined to bring a third party into your bed you and your partner need to set expectations of what will hapen down to a granular detail. Who get's to touch who or do what, how you'll signal that things aren't working out. Lay groundrules and make sure it's clear that those groundrules aren't flexible. Both you and your partner need to be extremely comfortable with the person you're going to have sex with, they're going to be your sexual parther, you should at least know them as well as you would if you were dating them singly and decided to take them to bed. Do not confuse the third party as a sex toy. They are a living breaking person with their own faults and needs and insecurities. They will react in the way they react and they deserve the same respect and patience you give your partner. Lastly you should have a discussion with your partner about how the relationship should be dissolved if the threesome causes a problem between you both that you can't resolve. It is a completely realistic risk, you owe it to your partner to face that risk maturely and openly.

This is addressed to Realdeal4u:

I realize that this response may come a little late. You and your husband may have already pursued a threesome, or you may have decided against it altogether. But for what it's worth, I'd like to weigh in a bit. My wife and I have recently begun pursuing threeway encounters with women. We've been together for nearly 10 years, so of course we were concerned that "those kinds" of activities might harm our marriage. There's always the possibility that we would see eachother differently, or that our attraction to one another would fizzle out, and so forth. But that's the sort of thing you'll only discover afterwards. You can only trust, you can only love. To engage in a threesome properly, you need to have a near religious faith in your relationship. Faith is a kind of letting go. If you have faith, you allow yourself to be open to the truth about your relationship -- whatever that happens to be. You roll the dice. For my wife and I, the gamble payed off. Our marriage is stronger than ever, and we're more open and honest than we've ever been. The best advice I can give is this: Drop whatever expectations you have about "what it's supposed to be like." Don't worry so much about where you meet your third person. Just put yourselves out there, so that the word gets around, and things will start happening for you. Discussing your feelings about having a threesome is very good, but don't do too much planning. It never goes like you think it will. Have faith!