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Q: Big Problem

asked by: Sicilian05 on December 8th, 2005

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It all started 2 years ago when I was 16 years old. I had over masterbated and had started to develop a rash on my penis.After that masterbation I was also pulling on the head of my penis to see if it would get bigger. Well im not sure if its because I pulled my penis or I over worried but now my my penis is not the same as it used to be. I cannot get my penis erect without alot of physical stimulation like thinking of women or sex has no effect. It has alot less sensiblility then it used to, its like its dead. And when it is erect its at 3oclock instead of straight up like it used to be, it has a rubbery feeling to it (alot softer), I have trouble maintaing the erection and theres alot more visible veins. It also has a discoloration to it and on cold days the head of penis gets cold to the chill.
I get a morning erection like once every 7 months (if im lucky) and when I do its that retarded eretion I just explained. I do not know what to do. Ive told this problem to my dad and he doesnt take it seriously hes like theres nothing wrong with you. Please help me im really worried!!!

Replies(19)

cd998776

replied on December 8th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Are you cut or uncut? Do you use lube?

Sicilian05

replied on December 8th, 2005

New User

Im uncut....And no I dont use lube

cd998776

replied on December 9th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

That might be what caused the rash. Try using some lube when you masturbate, it'll probably keep you from getting a rash like that.

gbusc

replied on December 9th, 2005

New User

Try to restrain from masturbating for 3-5 days and see if your sensitivty and ability to have a full erection is restored.

Traditional masturbation should cause sensitivity death and pulling shouldn't either. Most likely, your masturbation has desensitized you temporarily.

So try hold off for as long as possible and see if your vigor returns.

Sicilian05

replied on December 16th, 2005

New User

Well I stopped masterbating for 5 days n just yesterday I went to a strip club and got a 45 min lap dance and.......Nothing I relaxed and focused in on the girl and nothing its like its dead its like it cant get fulled up with blood and I even noticed I dont get as horny as I used to get when I had my normal erection :(

cd998776

replied on December 16th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

I don't think stopping masturbation for a few days is going to make any difference in your case; don't bother restraining from masturbation....

Sicilian05

replied on December 17th, 2005

New User

So what you suggest I do????

cd998776

replied on December 17th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

sicilian05 wrote:

so what you suggest I do????

don't get me wrong, go ahead and stop masturbation if you want, but it will make very little, if any difference.

The ability to maintain and erection and orgasm is almost completely mental, so you should be surprised that it takes a lot of physical and mental stimulation to keep an erection; you should remember to that as you grow older the random boners will become less and less regular...

Sicilian05

replied on December 18th, 2005

New User

Yes I understand that, but im only 17...... And this happened like all of a sudden since I dont get morning erections im almost positive theres something physically wrong with it. Because when I do manage to get the erection I really dont think it will penetrate the girl its alot softer and alot less flexible and not to mention loss of sensation

cd998776

replied on December 18th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

sicilian05 wrote:

yes I understand that, but im only 17...

i understand....

You might try stopping masturbation, and sex for a week. Don't think about it and keep your mind off of it as much as possible. Be sure to get plenty of sleep, eat healthy, and exercise, and then after a week, reasses where you are at...

Sicilian05

replied on December 18th, 2005

New User

Well I go to the gym like 3-5 times a week n I thnik I get plenty of sleep and its been 2 years like this I tried not thinking about it but didnt work :(

Human

replied on December 19th, 2005

Experienced User

What kinda stretches were you doing like the ones on the penis enlargement sites?

impotentyouth

replied on December 19th, 2005

Experienced User

Man I have been having the exact same problem for 4 months. The only difference is that I get horny and get good erections on some days..And pretty much dead like you the others. I don't get hard morning erections either...:((

cd998776

replied on December 20th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

^the "hornier" you are the stronger your erections are gunna be, the less arroused you are, the weaker your erections will be.

Sicilian05

replied on December 20th, 2005

New User

Well I had just finished masterbating and I started to pull my penis from the head I think I did it after 3 masterbations.....Its like my penis is carrying extra weight and its harder to get it erect and when I do manage to get it erect theres a red mark on the head of the penis where I pulled it....You dont know how much this is hurting my self esteem :(

impotentyouth

replied on December 21st, 2005

Experienced User

Me too...I so feel you. Now I have literally no confidence. I don't want to approach girls at all like I don't have the ability to. I've also lost confidence on a lot of other things...Every morning thinking about my soft penis I don't wanna get up :(

cd998776

replied on December 21st, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

^^do either one of you masturbate very frequently? I wonder if you haven't been giving the chemcials released from your brain during ejaculation enough time to replenish themselves..... That can cause aq mild depression which would likely leave you with a low self-esteem.....

Sicilian05

replied on December 21st, 2005

New User

Actually yes ive been masterbating alot but this last week took it ez like I wanna lower it at 3 times a week.......But its hard cause I dont work and I got school at night....But whenever I stop masterbating like for 2 days straight then I masterbate its like my penis is worse....I cum alot earlier then im supposed to and my penis has zero sensiblility like worse then usual :( well im gonna go to the doctors tommorow hopefully he can do tests on me to see what is going on with me cause I surely got no idea its gonna be very embaressing but if it means to have my penis back ill do it :) thx for ur help it helps talking about it!!

cd998776

replied on December 21st, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

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