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Finess150
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Wel..
Posted: 02-27-06 19:16pm
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I don't like it when people just confirm
things like 'it is wrong'.
Is it wrong?
Why can't people just do as they like if
it makes them happy and doesn't harm
others?
Life just isn't as black and white as
some people make it out to be.
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penelope67
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Posted: 02-27-06 19:39pm
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What people mean when they say that anal
sex is wrong is because in the bible it
says it is wrong-so to some people that is
their black and white-but I agree, people
shouldnt push their beliefs on people like
that. (just for the record I am
religious, and I have had anal sex)
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littlemisstery
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Re: Annal Sex
Posted: 02-28-06 01:25am
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| emerica
wrote: | me and my boyfreind are
thinking about having annal sex. I'm
quite unsure. I have heard some nasty
things, but its meant to be realy good.
My main concers are if it hurts, how will
I know i'm doing it right, if their are
any after affects. Please could someone
who has also done it give me some tips.
Thanks :wink:
p.S does anyonee know why gay guys get a
change in their
voice? |
realdeal's advice seems to be the same
that I go by. I do know if you do have
rough anal sex enough and you do so
without lube, hemorrhoids can form..
Which is not pretty at all.
As far as gay guys.. I think that they
change their voice mainly as a gender
identity thing.. It won't change
physically (from sex or anything of the
sort) unless they're taking doses of
estrogen. That will definitely cause a
voice change though. The same goes for
women who take large doses of steroids
(like bodybuilders), because their voices
will deepen.
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littlemisstery
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Re: Just a Wrong Habit
Posted: 02-28-06 01:42am
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| abde27
wrote: | | dear teresa , I believe that
most of our wrong habits start with a
simple curiosity, just like smoking
cigarettes. Then it's difficult to
abondon. I know a guy who can't sleep
with a woman unless she accepts to make
anal sex with him, the vagina does not
ecxite him. So, it's wrong and not
natural and even dangerous. This is
what I m trying to poit out. Let's be
resonable, we should not defend it. Not
all those who do it are satisfied. Ok
what do u
think |
your opinion could be just as
unreasonable as having anal sex in
the first place. If you've never even
done it, your opinion doesn't help much
here other than placing a bad mark on what
might be very enjoyable for her. Vaginal
sex can be just as dangerous.. Ever heard
of a pulmonary embolus? It's a blood clot
that occurs from air bubbles that *can*
occur from sex. Well if women take a
normal oral contraceptive for normal
vaginal sex, such a condition has been
known to occur. All forms of sex can be
dangerous given different diseases and
conditions that are out nowadays.
Everything can be wrong given the mindset
you've shown.
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Spanky2005
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Posted: 02-28-06 01:54am
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I dont know if anal sex is good or bad.
All I know is I wanna have it myself!
Only if my damn wife would let me! :-(
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littlemisstery
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Try Easing Her Into It?
Posted: 02-28-06 02:03am
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Spanky have you tried talking to her about
fingering her anally to see if she might
enjoy it first? Maybe easing her into it
and showing her it's not horribly painful
if done right may help.
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Spanky2005
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Posted: 02-28-06 23:23pm
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Hey I asked her many times. She wont even
consider the idea. :-(
her azzhole is too tight for this kind of
thing! Lol
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littlemisstery
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Do Other Things?
Posted: 02-28-06 23:44pm
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| spanky2005
wrote: | hey I asked her many times.
She wont even consider the idea. :-(
her azzhole is too tight for this kind of
thing! Lol |
hmm.. Well at first everyone has that
problem, but if she won't consider that
maybe she'll consider doing other things?
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Kiemister
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Re: Anal Sex
Posted: 04-05-06 23:04pm
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| karaokehstess33
wrote: | omg, what prudes we have in
here. I for one do not like anal sex, it
hurts to much...May be because I don't do
it enough. The only time I ever enjoyed
it was when I was completely drunk. But,
who are we to tell other people not to try
it? To each their own and people need to
explore what they think they may like.
Do whatever you want but don't let a man
pressure you into it. If you want to try
anal sex, try, if not say no. Do what is
in your heart and don't listen to these
"it's shameful" people in here.
Angie |
i am trying to prevent her from a very
painfull experience.... @ least when she
is sober lol :lol:
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sandy78
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Posted: 04-05-06 23:56pm
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I love anal sex! Ok, let me retract
that..I love anal sex when it's done right
lol. You cant just push something in
there and expect it to be fun! You need
to be gentle and communicate with each
other. You need a good lube that won't
dry out fast and stays in place when your
going at it. The best lube I have ever
used for anal sex is called ready lube and
as far as I know it's only availible
online at readylube.Com but you can look
around for it.
There is nothing wrong with anal sex or
any type of sex for that matter. If it's
between two consenting adults then do
whatever makes you feel good. I have
known a lot of men that in the presence of
their "buddies' will say it's gay to have
a girl put her finger in their butt, but
once there at home with you and you do it
correctly, (with lube :) ), they love
it...They will most likely never admit it,
but they love it. Men have that prostate
gland there and it's supposed to be the
best orgasim they can ever have when that
is stimulated!
As far as girls are concerned, some of my
best friends swear by great anal sex and
they say it gets them off almost as much
as vaginal sex does.
To sum it up:
1. Communicate with each other
2. Use a good quality lube (i like "ready
lube")
3. Be gentle and take your time
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asher
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Location: pakistan
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Posted: 04-12-06 19:55pm
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| sandy78
wrote: | i love anal sex! Ok, let
me retract that..I love anal sex when it's
done right lol. You cant just push
something in there and expect it to be
fun! You need to be gentle and
communicate with each other. You need a
good lube that won't dry out fast and
stays in place when your going at it.
The best lube I have ever used for anal
sex is called ready lube and as far as I
know it's only availible online at
readylube.Com but you can look around for
it.
There is nothing wrong with anal sex or
any type of sex for that matter. If it's
between two consenting adults then do
whatever makes you feel good. I have
known a lot of men that in the presence of
their "buddies' will say it's gay to have
a girl put her finger in their butt, but
once there at home with you and you do it
correctly, (with lube :) ), they love
it...They will most likely never admit it,
but they love it. Men have that prostate
gland there and it's supposed to be the
best orgasim they can ever have when that
is stimulated!
As far as girls are concerned, some of my
best friends swear by great anal sex and
they say it gets them off almost as much
as vaginal sex does.
To sum it up:
1. Communicate with each other
2. Use a good quality lube (i like
"ready lube")
3. Be gentle and take your
time |
my gf doesn't hav drive for sex I hav
never don anal sex with her. If I do anal
sex will it increas her sex drive. Wot I
normally lik is to hav different way &
position in vaginal sex I do also suck her
on vagina use toung up & down push in
do wot ever can be to make her enjoy she
enjoys that too but yet it doesn't
increase her sex drive. Next tim she
would be reluctant to hav sex. She
doesn't like to start it which bothers me.
Its not that she has some problem with me
she love me but I dont know why she is
hesitant always may b shy. It worries me
a lot. On the other hand wen ever I meet
her I get sexually aroys wen she touch me.
My penius is always about to burst its
like hard stick its want to be put in and
motion lik rocket at that tim its
difficult to stop but wen she doesn't
respond so sexually I control myself after
ward this feeling crushes me that wen I
want her she is not willing . This will
effect our relationship.How I can make her
use to this how can I increas her sex
drive or desire. A girl can guide me in
this matter. One thing I wanna metion
that wen I pushed in 7 inches she felt
pain she told me to hold I held at that
very moment then I never pushed in
complete becas it hurts her. One thing
may b important she gets wet down there
very soon. In oral sex she likes to hold
my penis suck it up & down lick it
tries to swallow it she likes it then she
likes to b suked but then she doesn't like
to have more then that. V had almost few
tim complete sex. Some way to mak her
desireous of sex some way to increas her
sex driv.
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asher
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Posted: 04-12-06 20:05pm
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Wot I think of anal sex is that its
excelent I want to hav anal sex I never
had anal sex but I like girl ass to b
rubbed on my penis . I like to put in
there very desirously waiting 4 that
moment wen I can put in there I think anal
sex would b more charming
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sandy78
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Use a Lube When It Happens!
Posted: 04-12-06 21:50pm
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Well I hope you get your chance to one day
have anal sex since you seem to want it
very much. Remember to use a lube when
the times come though or else it will not
be a great expierence for either of you.
On the issue of your gf, if she doesn't
want to have sex with you and seems
distant you might want to get another gf.
Not to saythat sex is everything but you
are young and you should be able to have
fun with your gf from time to time and
from what you say she seems very unwilling
to make you happy. A relationship is a 2
way street, give and take and if you are
treatng her right and being a good bf then
what's the deal. A relationship needs sex
to be a romantic relationship otherwise
what the difference from her or a friendly
coworker...Nothing.
I wish you the best!
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asher
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Re: Use a Lube When It Happens!
Posted: 04-13-06 19:32pm
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| sandy78
wrote: | well I hope you get your
chance to one day have anal sex since you
seem to want it very much. Remember to
use a lube when the times come though or
else it will not be a great expierence for
either of you.
On the issue of your gf, if she doesn't
want to have sex with you and seems
distant you might want to get another gf.
Not to saythat sex is everything but you
are young and you should be able to have
fun with your gf from time to time and
from what you say she seems very unwilling
to make you happy. A relationship is a 2
way street, give and take and if you are
treatng her right and being a good bf then
what's the deal. A relationship needs
sex to be a romantic relationship
otherwise what the difference from her or
a friendly coworker...Nothing.
I wish you the
best! |
hi thnx 4 encouragment & giving me
frank opinion but u know I hav very little
chance to leave her leaving her may b the
last thing as v r engaged. I want to
enhance this relationship. Very frankly I
dont enjoy with her its make me sick but I
have no option other than making her
convince or creat sex drive iv her. She
never start well its seem only I want but
afterward wen started she enjoys it but
its most of the time one sided wot if she
even does every thing but after all
refusal there is no cnarm left 4 me becas
its not one day affair. Its simply
bothers me all the time & she knows
that but I dont blam her too much I think
may b after som tim or by some way she
gets on. I want the way out i'm serious
about it as it has really disturb me may b
if I can know psyche of a lady its helps
& I can increase her sex drive. So I
wann b through this if some way out
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asher
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Re: Use a Lube When It Happens!
Posted: 04-15-06 21:22pm
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| asher
wrote: | | sandy78
wrote: | well I hope you get your
chance to one day have anal sex since you
seem to want it very much. Remember to
use a lube when the times come though or
else it will not be a great expierence for
either of you.
On the issue of your gf, if she doesn't
want to have sex with you and seems
distant you might want to get another gf.
Not to saythat sex is everything but you
are young and you should be able to have
fun with your gf from time to time and
from what you say she seems very unwilling
to make you happy. A relationship is a
2 way street, give and take and if you are
treatng her right and being a good bf then
what's the deal. A relationship needs
sex to be a romantic relationship
otherwise what the difference from her or
a friendly coworker...Nothing.
I wish you the
best! |
hi thnx 4 encouragment & giving me
frank opinion but u know I hav very little
chance to leave her leaving her may b the
last thing as v r engaged. I want to
enhance this relationship. Very frankly
I dont enjoy with her its make me sick but
I have no option other than making her
convince or creat sex drive iv her. She
never start well its seem only I want but
afterward wen started she enjoys it but
its most of the time one sided wot if she
even does every thing but after all
refusal there is no cnarm left 4 me becas
its not one day affair. Its simply
bothers me all the time & she knows
that but I dont blam her too much I think
may b after som tim or by some way she
gets on. I want the way out i'm serious
about it as it has really disturb me may b
if I can know psyche of a lady its helps
& I can increase her sex drive. So I
wann b through this if some way
out |
hi listen about anal sex I may get a
chance which i'm not hopeful but if I get
wot all r good lubs available name them.
Second she wants to make me happy and if
she agrees for 1 out of 10 tim I want to
make sex in the end she says I just had
sex becas I want to make u happy other
wise it does not matter 4 her. Wen she
says this I feel she doesn't enjoy or she
just try to get away with this once in a
blue moon to have me close wot should I do
really dont understand v had a fight becas
I said to her every time u respond
negitive u dont give importance to me she
started saying that I dont beleive her
love & affection actually I even dont
feel her affaction or love she never talk
love matter very less she just talks other
thing so wot love & affection I told
her that and v had a fight i'm worried
please help me out if u can. I may get a
way out actually I cant fight her on
minor things I can sacrifice but how much
becas I love her. So help please.
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asher
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Posted: 04-19-06 22:27pm
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Wot I think is I may not get anal sex
chanc becas of my gf should I ask her 4
anal sex once I just wanted to place and
just press it little bit in but she held
me there. Should I ask her again.
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niksag03
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Annal Sex
Posted: 04-22-06 12:05pm
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I am wondering is it safe when your
boyfriend cum inside of you with annal
sex?
What damage could this cause?
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asher
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Re: Annal Sex
Posted: 04-24-06 20:00pm
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| niksag03
wrote: | i am wondering is it safe
when your boyfriend cum inside of you with
annal sex?
What damage could this
cause? |
hi I think if u allow bf to come and tell
him to not com heavy on u it will hav no
damage. Control should b in ur hand ur bf
should b static u should b moving but I
wounder would my gf would like if I ask
her for anal sex. Once I placed my penis
on her annus and pushed little bit but she
stopped I never asked her again 4 anal sex
should I ask her 4 annal sex
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sandy78
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Re: Annal Sex
Posted: 04-25-06 20:30pm
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| niksag03
wrote: | i am wondering is it safe
when your boyfriend cum inside of you with
annal sex?
What damage could this
cause? |
i know of nothing bad that can happen from
doing this. Also, there is no control
over how much cum your bf will make so it
doesn't make any sense totell him not to
cum that much in your anus. People have
anal sex all the time so if there was a
huge problem from doing it you would know.
Bottom line is that you should do what
makes you feel good and if it doesn't hurt
anyone else than don't worry about it.
Bye :)
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asher
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Re: Annal Sex
Posted: 04-26-06 16:21pm
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| sandy78
wrote: | | niksag03
wrote: | i am wondering is it safe
when your boyfriend cum inside of you with
annal sex?
What damage could this
cause? |
i know of nothing bad that can happen from
doing this. Also, there is no control
over how much cum your bf will make so it
doesn't make any sense totell him not to
cum that much in your anus. People have
anal sex all the time so if there was a
huge problem from doing it you would know.
Bottom line is that you should do what
makes you feel good and if it doesn't hurt
anyone else than don't worry about it.
Girls like which sex more anal or viginal
which makes them more enjoy just to feel
confident in asking gf
bye :) |
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