I understand the excitement you anticipate in having a three some. My husband and I always talked about it. We were both very aroused about the idea. Then one night we had the opportunity. It was awesome, for all three of us. Then it became like an addiction. Every time we were together for any reason we always ended up with a three some. I have learned so much from that experience. Be very careful who you decide to have a threesome with. Just like dating, know who they've been with, have they been tested for std, are they emotionally mature for a threesome. Anything can happen from getting an std to her wanting your boyfriend, your boyfriend being more into her than he is into you, you being more into her than your boyfriend, anything can happen. Are you ready for the consequences? If I could rewind my life I would have chosen not to do it. Yes, it was fun at the time but it caused so many problems in my relationship with my husband. It has been 2 to 3 years and I am still working on my relationship to get it back to the way it used to be. Just be careful.

Thank you for responding to my post. Now I am getting second thoughts about doing it. My b/f always say it is just physical and I should not get emotionally attacked...

He kept stressing on that.

Where did you find this person to have the 3some with?

My husband and I have discussed this topic many times and i'll tell you my only hesitation (other than finding the other person). I fear that he will enjoy her more than me and use that as an open door to exploring without me. I have a suggestion for you. If this is something that you are willing to try then you go out and find the other person. Your partner doesn't even have to know her name if you choose. That eased my mind a lot because the only link he will have to her is through me. But do respect your partner for being open enough to discuss it with you.

Yes, there are many emotional and pysical conciquences, double than just already having sex with one person. So, be prepared to face the worst, and keep in mind, this might cause the loss of your relationship. My opinion, its not the smartest thing to do.

I would suggest... Don't. Two tales.

We did ffm first and though my wife was happy with me both kinssing and doing it the other female, afterwards my performing oral on the other really got to her.

My wife and I tried this mmf with a man we knew and trusted. Or so we thought.

Though ground rules were established, including his use of a condom. It got rather out of control. Taking her from behind he began to finger her ass roughly. And then called her filthy things. Then it got scary I have to say, reallybscary. Mid penetration he withdrew, pulled off the condom and ejaculated all over my wifes vagina before quickly pushing his unprotected penis into her.

Do not bother I say

wow.... Rough experience man...