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Q: I Think I'm Pregga's!!

asked by: ~*danielle*~ on December 16th, 2003

New User

Hiya evry1!! I need sum advice becoz I think i'm pregga's
i'v been reading all of the other advice u have given young teen's and I think you's are all sound.
We'll i'll introduce myself 2 u .
My name is danielle,i'm 16 and I live in the u.K!!
About 3 months ago I had unprotected sex, then I had my period but it woz 2 weeks l8(its never l Cool

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since then I have had 2 more periods but they havnt been on time, & when i'm havin them they are makin me feel very dizzy n I feel as tho i'm going 2 black out. I have also had a sharp pain in the side of my stomache next 2 hip. My stomache has gotton a bit bigger & I have noticed my breasts gettin bigger @ had very sore nipples.
During those 3 months I have had unprotected sex again 3 times & 2 ov those times he came up me.
The last time I had unprotected sex was almost 2 weeks ago, my next period is meant 2 be due on the 2nd dec. Do u think I should take a pregnancy test?? & if so, when do u think I shud take it??

I will be very grateful 2 any1 who has any answers
loads ov luv
&
best wishes 2 evry1
~*danielle*~
xxxxxxx Smile

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Replies(42)

Sara1023

replied on December 16th, 2003

New User

You should probably take a home pregnancy test. I would try ept. Good luck!
Sara

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~*danielle*~

replied on December 16th, 2003

New User

Thanx 4 ur reply sara
i am definately going 2 buy a test
luv ~*danielle*~
xxx

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sparklypixie12

replied on December 16th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Hey danielle,i think u r preggers! U seem like u'd b happy! Take a test & let us know!
Liz (from birmingham,england) x

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nikki_caro

replied on December 16th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Yup, like liz said, a test would be best! Lol

you could have been spotting or your periods might have just been late. I know im always late!

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~*danielle*~

replied on December 16th, 2003

New User

Hiya liz
thanx 4 the reply
i wud definately b happy if I was pregnant
its nice 2 see sum1 else from the u.K on here aswell
so r u pregnant aswell then??
Speak 2 ya l8a pet
all my luv
~*danielle*~
xxxxxxxxxx

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Darling

replied on December 16th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Are you hoping to get pregnant danielle? Or did you have unprotected sex by accident? Either way like the others said you could be pregnant just go buy a test and let us know how it goes

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saturn24

replied on December 16th, 2003

Experienced User

If you are pregnant and are happy about it then congratulations. However, if you are not, I suggest you use protection at least for the next couple of years. Babies are a blessing, but you are only 16 and you have your whole life ahead of you. You have lots of time to have babies. So, if you are not pregnant already, please at least wait until you are a little older.

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~*danielle*~

replied on December 17th, 2003

New User

Thanx 2 evry1 who replied
i am not tryin 2 get pregnant but if I was I wud definateley keep it, I know I am 2 young but I dont believe in abortions
i didnt have unprotected sex by accident because it's happened more than once,but it's always been when I have had 2 much 2 drink,however I wudn't think ov it as a mistake if I did find out I am pregnant,because if I had a baby it wud b much loved

if there's any1 who wants 2 talk about anything u can add me 2 msn as I am always wanting sum1 2 talk 2
luv
~*danielle*~
xxxx

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minerwater

replied on December 17th, 2003

Experienced User

Maybe it's time to consider birthcontrol pills, patch, depo shots or something of the sort. Obviously condoms are not working for you and being drunk is not a good excuse.
Sorry - but this is really irresponsible!

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expectingjoshua

replied on December 17th, 2003

New User

I agree with minerwater....Being drunk is defintely not an excuse and altho you say you would love the baby and keep it, it is a lot easier said than done. I have been there danielle, and it's no game to have a baby at 16. Talk to a doctor about what options are best suited for you. (that is if you aren't pg already).

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~*danielle*~

replied on December 17th, 2003

New User

Minerwater and expectingjoshua
i understand wot the both of u are saying and appreciate it
i know being drunk isnt a good excuse for my irresponsable behaviour.
But if when I take a test I find out i'm not pregnant I will definateley b takin sum kind of birth control or make sure I always use a condom.
Luv danielle
x x x

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sparklypixie12

replied on December 17th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Saturn-
as long as ur at the age of consent,in a stable & loving relationship & r sensible & mature enough 2 have a child,i dont think it matters if ur 16 0r 40 2 b honest! Not every girl thinks u need 2 'live a bit' b4 a have a baby.For some girls,being a mom is all the life they want.Sorry,this is just what I think!
Liz x

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saturn24

replied on December 17th, 2003

Experienced User

You are entitled to your opinion. However, it is my opinion that whether you want to live a little or not, you should wait until after 16. I mean, if it happens, it happens. And yes, some women do only want to have kids. But I am speaking from experience. Every single one of my friends had kids in high school. There children are between the ages of 5 and 8. Although they love their children more than anything in the whole world they still wished that they would have waited until they had grown up before raising another person.
There are many successful teen parents. There are many who are more successful than people who waited until they were 40 or older. However, for the love of god, if you have a choice in the matter, which she does, you could at least wait until you graduate from high school or are old enough to vote. I mean, if you truly want to bring a child into this world, don't you want to be able to give it the best life that you possibly can? I am not saying that you cannot do that at 16, but it would be a lot harder to finish school and get a good job with a child. Plus, she has her whole life to have a baby.
But like I said you are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine.

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user500

replied on December 18th, 2003

New User

Sparklepixie

What? Please don't encourage a sixteen year old to purposely get pregnant. Teenagers are so emotional and indecisive as it is. How many sixteen year olds are in a loving long term committed relationship.One day they could be madly in love with each other only to brake up the next. They could feel like they want to have a baby and then change their mind a week later, maybe when it is too late. There is a huge difference between 16 and 40. Do the math!

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user500

replied on December 18th, 2003

New User

Danielle

You sound like a sweet girl. I hope everything works out for you :d :d
I am really proud of you for your decision to use protection from now on. Keep us posted.

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saturn24

replied on December 18th, 2003

Experienced User

Thank you heather...

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sparklypixie12

replied on December 22nd, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

U dont bloody know me so dont treat me like im thick (u cant even spell!!!)i know theres a difference between 16-40 so dont patronise.Its a girls own body & she can get pregnant whenever she wants-these people dont even know me & if they were encouraged by me,theyd have 2 b very pathetic! And also,ive known many,many 16yr olds in long term r/ships.Im 18.5 and ive been with my boyfriend since I was 15.We plan 2 get married in a couple of years so yes,i was a 16yr old in a long term relationship & it is common.Not all young people r indecisive,some of us know what we want from life.People can make their own choices & I dont expect any1 2 b influenced my what r my (caps) opinions.
Thank u!!

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saturn24

replied on December 22nd, 2003

Experienced User

Who can't spell???
And you are right, anyone can have a baby whenever they want. And I am glad that you are happy! But, I will kiss your feet if there never comes a day in your life when you are at least a little bit upset that you didn't get to do certain things when you were younger because you had a baby. You may not see it coming now, and hopefully it never happens to you. But, I know a heck of a lot of people who had babies young, and they all wish they had waited. My dad was 27 when he had his first kid, my sister, and he even told me that when I get married and have children to wait even longer than he did. There is always time.

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user500

replied on December 22nd, 2003

New User

I know how to spell you, be and to... And what does "thick" mean?

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