you need to sit back with a bowl of ice cream and eat it and look at all the crevaces and mounds and indulge and realize that everything is ok. ive struggled with depression and anxiety and i still do. i jump to conclusions about health related things. i get scared so easily. last summer i had a battle with my anxiety and alot of it stemmed from one of my best friends dying at the age of twenty. he didnt deserve to go and he died from a health related thing, not from and o.d. or a car accident. so i guess i get paranoid about my health because of what happened to him.
MY FRIEND HERE IS HOW YOU WILL END YOUR ANXIETY....Or let me rephrase that, control it. i know because i deal with it everyday. i learned to control mine.
NUMBER ONE! the most important.
MEDITATION
do this everyday, for at least 15 minutes or as long as u need read up on techniques. it will save ur soul. honestly from a human to a human this has saved me. i was in a dark place, scared, depressed, anxious, thinking i was dying. i found meditation through a friend and it saved me. he took me to a buddhist temple where every wed. ppl come and meditate. it is amazing and an invaluable tool against ur anxiety. please consider this and try it out. it takes time and practice, but i guarantee it will help. meditation is simply training ur brain to control itself so that it doesnt end up controlling u which it is now. when u meditate ur sitting with ur back straight in that classic meditation pose im sure u know lol and u breath in and out calmly, and u think about nothing when thoughts enter ur brain u just shut them out. like i said this takes practice but u will see the benefits the more u do it.
number 2...have fun
go out, do things, be with ppl u love. i love films. i go to the movies all the time. this is gonna sound vein and stupid but go out and buy something nice for yourself. these things help go do stuff. do things that get ur mind off ur mind, if u know what i mean.
number 3 go to a therapist...
im not sure what ur problems are that cause u to feel the way you are but im sure u have some. i do and so does everyone. if u talk to this person she or he will help u deal with ur problems in a private setting. u can lay it all out. all ur fears, anything, and everything.
number 4 and this is a maybe.
try not to take meds.
i know alot of ppl do but i think it should be ur last resort when all else fails. in our world today we rely too much on corporations and there meds to keep us "calm" and under control. but what about when we go off them wont we have the same problems. ur anxiety or whatever ur dealing with is an honest, healthy, normal reaction to things in ur life. u shouldnt shut out these feelings with meds. u need to really try ur best to overcome these things. it is so rewarding to overcome it urself, believe me. dont get me wrong meds are an option, but only the last in my opinion.
number 5 and this is also important...
read "been there, done that? DO THIS!" by sam obitz
it provides great tools to overcome ur thinking processes and try to get u in control of ur thoughts and your mine. it helped me tons! i can continue talking about the book and how great it is but i think u should just read it and find out for urself!
the book is cheap and u can order it here...http://www.supertao.com/
i really hope i helped u. i know how it feels. i just stumbled on this post and had to write to u. i was looking for info on feeling off balance, for about a week now ive been feeling off balance on and off. ive had this cold for a while now ppl tell me i have an ear infection but i dont feel pain in my ear. anyway im going to the doctor tomorrow to check it out. i was so nervous tonight, my girlfriend had to calm me down. SEE! we all get nervous, but we all can learn how to control it.
I REALLY HOPE I HELPED YOU! YOU WILL KNOCK THIS DOWN AND BREAK IT UP!!! ITS NOTHING!!!!
THESE FEELINGS THAT ANXIETY GIVES YOU, THEY ARE A LIE!!
YOUR HEART IS REAL!!
YOU CREATED THIS THING IN YOUR MIND AND YOU CAN BREAK IT!!
I KNOW U CAN because I DID!!
i dunno if u ever saw garden state, i did. it wasnt even that great but theres this one part...when the main character ends up at this house thats sorta like a boat...i dont wanna ruin it for u but something really great is said when he leaves the house...it made me cry. i think if u watch it and really think about what is said at that point you will see what i mean.
HAVE FUN!