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Q: Lucky? Or Something Wrong?

asked by: my_secret on December 6th, 2005

New User

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months, and haven't had protected sex once (not that i'm proud of it). I'm curious as to why I haven't got pregnant (not that i'm complaining) but I always hear about people getting pregnant even when using a condom, now i'm kind of concerned that something is wrong with either me or him, but he has a kid already, so i'm thinking maybe it's me. There has been a couple of times where he actually came inside me, but the rest he pulled out.

There has been a few times where my period was extremely heavy, and included blood clots, so that made me wonder if I possibly had a miscarriage.

My last pap smear was last year sometime, and its about time for another one, but as far as I know, i'm a healthy 20 year old, with no diseases.

Do you guys think i'm just lucky, or maybe something's wrong?

Replies(3)

kitty2luv

replied on December 7th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Me n my bf have been haven unprotected for about the same n I havent gotten preg yet either lol..

Butterfly_05

replied on December 7th, 2005

Experienced User

Maybe you are just lucky. My fiance and are have been ttc for about two months. We heard that it was easier to get pregnent around ovulation but also if you had sex 3-5 times a week. So we have done all of this and still no baby. I know that I am healthy and so is he so we are in the same boat. If you know that you are healthy and if he has already concieved a child then he must be too. So I wouldn't worry and if you are then go to the doctor and he will answer any questions that you have.

Jolie_3110

replied on December 7th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Dont worry! Rather stupidly I was having unprotected sex all the time when I was younger (not recommended) after 16mths of being together I did fall pregnant needless to say the relationship didnt work out. If you really dont want a baby use protection! Coz for most healthy couples they say allow at least 12-18mths trying to conceive before even thinking that there may be a problem. Sometimes these things take time

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