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December 6th, 2005
Guys I need ur help....Is it my fault!?
I think I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs, and now i'm just getting fed up with our sex life. I can't come!
We got into a fight last night about it, and he told me that it was my fault, that I wasn't doing something right?
So who'd at fault here. I do everything I can to try to come, but I just get tired and pissed off. I mean he comes fine all the time, and just leaves me there...

Please help!
Kelly
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cd998776
replied December 6th, 2005
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Wait, do you mean he can't come?
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KYkelly
replied December 6th, 2005
No, I meant me. He comes all the time...Its me that cant come.
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Uncovered
replied December 6th, 2005
kykelly wrote:
no, I meant me. He comes all the time...Its me that cant come.


and by that you don't meen ejacuation, you meen and orgasm. Often sex can become dull after long periods of time, it is best to try something new and exiting. Possibly different possitions, locations and fetishes. Such as filming yourselves having sex, but I wouldn't reccomend this if you a will to get in trouble for it.
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cd998776
replied December 7th, 2005
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Uncovered offered some good advice!




600th post!
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MissShortie
replied December 7th, 2005
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Well it nothing un common dear, most women do not orgasm regularly if ever during sex. Now if your able to orgasm on your own (masterbating) then you know what areas you need to be touched in to make you tick. Well these are the areas and things you need to tell your bf, to do this or that, hes not going to know what you like unless you tell him, and heck if he comes and your not finished just have him stay there with you and play with you, or maybe you do it 'yourself'. At least youll be able to release your sexual tension and not just be totally horny then let down but achieving no stimulation. But honestly for most women its seldom when sex alone can make a women orgasm, most of the attention is always needed to the clitoris for an orgasm. Best of luck, dont be mad with your bf, try to work it out in a way to please you at least sometimes, after all you deserve it for all the times you've pleased him : )
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