Accepting that you have anxiety is the start, read as much as you can on it (this forum is great) and then try differant technics to deal with it. If you need to go on meds until you sort yourself out - that is fine! Don't think that you are weak etc and don't let anyone tell you they are bad. Some people have to have them for a while to sort through this disease!
Trying things like - breathing exercises, programmes like - lucinda bassetts, herbal remedies - like chamamile tea, exercise and a new thing that I am looking into thanks to a post on this site eft technics, involves tapping certain parts of the body to release energy (i think) haven't started it yet.
Once you know what it is and how certain things can help you can get back to leading a normal life!
If you need to talk email me.
Bek