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Q: Please Help Me!!

asked by: wargosmama on December 3rd, 2005

New User

I am in need of some help!!! Im 15 almost 16.
Im still not sure if I am pregnant or not but I am most likely.
Im taking a pregnancy test in 3days. But I need help on some stuff. My mother hates my boyfriend and she wont let us be together. If she found out I am going to be pregnant, she will send me away and make me get an abortion(most likely). I dont want to get an abortion, I want to have this kid if I am pregnant. I dont know what to do about me getting out of my house. I cant live here much longer. I need to get out, and im not going to run away. I just need some advice on how or what to do for me to get out of my house. This is the only way I can be with my boyfriend also.
Thanks!

Replies(3)

Happiness03

replied on December 4th, 2005

Experienced User

I know it is going to be hard, but either way, I think you should talk to your mom. Do you know why she hates your boyfriend? If not, this would be a good opportunity to let her know why you care for him so much. At first she will be disappointed, angry, and upset when you tell her you are/think you are pregnant, but think about how much worse it will be when she finds out you were hiding it from her. I wish you the best of luck, but I think communication is the best thing here! Keep us posted! If you ever need to talk, you can send me a pm. In the mean time hang in there!

Jennie25

replied on December 4th, 2005

Experienced User

If your mom says you have to get an abortion, just rebel..As bad as it sounds, you still have to stick up for what you believe in. Even if that means not listening to mommy dearest. Does your bf know?

yellow ribbon

replied on December 7th, 2005

Especially eHealthy

I dont know what the law is where you are (you can look online) but in fl if you are 16 and get a note from your doctor stating you are pregnant you can get married without moms consent. Also even if your mother drags you to the clinic kicking and screaming they ask you have you been forced to come here? And they wont do the procedure unless you have come on your own feel will and it is your decision

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