I would consider first of all maybe if you have a good relatonship, telling our mom that you are active and talking to her as a adult about this, depo is bad, really bad, you can grow hair in places that you should not have it including your face, I had hair show up on my lip after taking it for a while. Now I have to wax, and you lose your hair and yes you can gain weight, I was 150lbs, when I started it, I am 5foot 9 inch so I am tall that is not fat for me, well I was on it for a little over a year and got off when I got of I weighed 230 lbs, thats 80lbs that I gained in over a year, and I am a very active person, now I am preganant and 280lbs, I feel huge and it all started with depo, after I have the baby I am not ever taking it agian and I will be skinny again, just beware, it also can keep you from being able to conceive when you are ready, you should research it there is much more on line, it can cause you to lose your libido, or sex drive, the thing that is like a natural lube for woman.