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Q: I Dont Know What to Think
asked by: lonelyjeff08 on December 1st, 2005
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See me and this girl started going out about two months ago . Ive have never connected with someone on so many levels so fast. It was kinda weird. Well after two weeks we broke up for one week because she felt she still had some feelings for her ex and he started talkin to her again. Well after tow days she found out he was lieing to her and was talkin caca behind her back. Well we got back together about one week after we broke up. We have been goin fine and steady for the past month and a-half. Then she went to her moms. Her and her mom have a bad past and her mom causes her serious problems because she was beat as a kid. She has had a terrible past. Now she has told me everything except the details and she wants to tell me the details but she doesn't want me to judge her form the past. I reassured her that I wouldn't but she is still really afraid. She is stressed out because she has to go to councling for her to cope with the problems with her mom. She hasn't gone in awhile and she is getting even more stressed out. And she wants to keep this to herself but iv'e messed up our relationship by wanting to be there and help because it is hard as hell to see some one you love go through this much pain. Stress,, and anger and other emotions,but she is afraid that I would get in the way of her and her problems and now I am afraid that since we are broken up that she may try to go out with another guy. But she reassures me that she will not go with another guy because she really does still have feelings for me. What should I do? How long should I wait to talk to her, and do you think she will really go back out with me? And can you give me any words of encouragement?
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frosk
replied on December 13th, 2005
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I went through a similar thing with a girlfriend. She had a terrible past-no beating, just wild, and I had to know everything. Yours may be a different situation, but all I know is I wish I didnt ask. Unless you are superman you will judge. At least I did. It took me over a year to get over what I heard. Eventually I married her :) I know you are trying to help her, but maybe it is better that she tell a professional about it and let the good things be told to you. Life is way to short to hear all the crap in someones life, unless you two are both prepared to do so.
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