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Q: Problems With Girlfriend
asked by: 0h0942 on December 1st, 2005
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I met this girl at my school, and we become freinds. Then it turned in to love, she says she loves me, and stuff. Then once in a while she changes around and says we are only friends. And sometimes screams at me, and swears. I cant say anything she will get mad. Today we met and were suppose to go somewhere. She was in a really mad mood, she hugged me, and then said shes gotta go because shes got stuff to do, she made me feel really unwanted, which really hurt me. Then when she got home, she called me and said that I didnt even care for ever, didnt even hold her and hug, but she made me scared to say anything because she was really moody, and all the sudden its my fault. I dont think I did anything bad, shes the one that told me shes got just stuff to do. I really like here alot and would be hurt to loose her. She does text message me alot, and call me. I am so confused.
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vdubmkiv
replied on December 3rd, 2005
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That sounds exactly like my position about 2 years ago. I know the heart will tell you that you love who you love. But its really what the future holds. A relationship is supposed to be 50/50, not 90/10. Love is blinding, it really is, all I can say, if you see something wrong, then theres something wrong. You cant just pushover and accept it. Im not saying charge back, just stay calm, dont show any weakness, and just ask question. Now this is only my .02 cents, so take it as advice. As for me, we only lasted 3 months, I just couldnt deal with someone with equal mood values to that of a bipolar person. I know I have thought I have been in love over and over, but I refuse to let love stand in the way and ruin my life with someone who I think makes me happy, but I am uncertain of. Again dont let love blind you. When you know youve found that perfect someone, youll most likely be unsure of it, but then it'll hit you...........Hard. Then you should know where to go from there. Again, just my .02 cents.


"there are plenty of fish in the sea"
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paola O.
replied on December 6th, 2005
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Hi well all I can say is that we girls do weird things when we like someone. Maybe she likes knowing she has your attention and that you care about her and maybe thats why she does that. It sounds like she likes you but she may be affraid of telling you. Well good luck and all I can say is let her know what you feel and also ask her whats going on with her and how come she gives you so many hi hopes but if you ask her im almost sure she will tell you everything
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