That sounds exactly like my position about 2 years ago. I know the heart will tell you that you love who you love. But its really what the future holds. A relationship is supposed to be 50/50, not 90/10. Love is blinding, it really is, all I can say, if you see something wrong, then theres something wrong. You cant just pushover and accept it. Im not saying charge back, just stay calm, dont show any weakness, and just ask question. Now this is only my .02 cents, so take it as advice. As for me, we only lasted 3 months, I just couldnt deal with someone with equal mood values to that of a bipolar person. I know I have thought I have been in love over and over, but I refuse to let love stand in the way and ruin my life with someone who I think makes me happy, but I am uncertain of. Again dont let love blind you. When you know youve found that perfect someone, youll most likely be unsure of it, but then it'll hit you...........Hard. Then you should know where to go from there. Again, just my .02 cents.
"there are plenty of fish in the sea"