No Orgasm!!! I'm Embaressed... Posted: 11-30-05 15:22pm
I was really upset for the past 3 weeks
that I was not fully satisfied with my
boyfriend. I have not had an orgasm for
weeks and he will not go down on me any
more. I've been holding it inside for a
while but yesterday I burst into tears and
told him everything. Now I am turned off
by my own embaresment with the situation.
I'm afraid to have sex with him b/c I felt
as though I had made him feel like he was
not good enough! I don't know what to
do!!!!
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Savvy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Posts: 9 Location: USA
Adivise Posted: 11-30-05 15:32pm
Talk to him tell him what you like
exactly.............Dont be shy......Also
ask him what he like exaclty. Remind him
that he does it for you in soooo many
ways, and you just want everything to be
perfect (i.E. Sex)
it really amazing when we take the time to
talk with eachother and educate our
partners.
Re: No Orgasm!!! I'm Embaressed... Posted: 12-01-05 13:10pm
Hi. It is a proven fact that over 85% of
women do not achieve an orgasm through
sexual penetration. I am one of them!
Although sex feels great, it does not give
the orgasm most women need. If oral sex
is not an option, go to the adult store
and buy a click vibrator, they cost
anywhere from 30.00 to 80.00. Buy one
with multi=speeds to get the best results.
You will love it, and you don't have to
tell your partner! Its a woman thing, he
wouldn't understand!!!!
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nightangel73
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 2597 Location: ,
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Posted: 12-02-05 19:01pm
Healthmatters but what if he finds out she
has a vibrator?
I have never tried vibrators but I have
found that the pulsating shower massager
is a great toy and yet discrete. I did
told my bf how much I enjoy it and he told
me that he wanted to see me using it, so
it seems that turn guys on. I wished I
knew years ago about it. Lol
