Sex Problems

How much do you masturbate?
Are you under any type of major stress?
Are you on any medication?

It seems like your hormonal system is shut down, perhaps from over-masturbation or drug/medication abuse.

Having cold hands and feet and no libido indicates kidney yang deficiency in traditional chinese medicine or also known as male hormone deficiency.

Try taking a multi-vitamin, l-tyrosine, 5-htp, choline and male silk moth drops (from dragonherbs.Com). Your dopamine and serotonin levels are likely to be low because low serotonin promotes excessive dopamine conversion to adrenalin thus resulting in low dopamine (which kills testosterone production) and high adrenalin.

Loss of sensitivity is due to acetylcholine deficiency. These supplements will cost a lot of money but get a job to support the fight and get on with your life.

I haven't anwsered a forum member's questions relevant to alan ritz's book because i'm pretty busy right now by the way...

I was reading what you said ,

and I see in myself symptoms like these.



What I have is that some periods of time[lasting a week maybe] I have high sex drive and I masturbate.I have a normal-full erection!!!



But other periods this stops suddenly..


Now I am in a relationship and ... I dont know if its cause of me being anxious , but I want to have an erection but I dont have it or I dont have a full one.



Considering that my size is not so good , [14-15cm] not having a full erection doesnt help.


It's been a week that I have a relationship and we have had sex.The first time,i blacked out and then after relaxing[after 1 hour?] I had a full erection but then I ejaculated prematurely..Ok this is logical I haven't had sex for like..8 months!


But then...The last time some days ago,we went to have sex..I wanted this too much..I was 'hot' but I didnt have a full erection.... I was tired , and hungry...I didnt offer a good sex and I couldnt do it for a second time...The last 2 weeks I havent been sleeping good[average 6 hours per day] cause I think a lot and I cant relax..So I dont rest..I dont smoke nor drink alcohol...



After this I m feeling disappointed and many times I m thinking of commiting suicide.I experience some mild depression that is caused from random factors .. And I suspect that maybe somethings wrong with my thyroids and hormones..



I have to mention also that my feet and hands are very very cold especially during winter...



What tests should I do so that I know whats wrong [if indeed is something wrong]

please help me, I am 23 years old and all I am asking is to be able to satisfy my girl and to be normal on this...

I think there are a number of things causing your problems: nerves, stress, and how sensitive you are. How often do you masturbate?

Lastly not at all
when I was alone normally , twice a day maybe....

The feelings of suicide you speak of, I have found, seem to be common with guys that have ejaculated often enough that their body is unable to catch up, and thus experience a depression. This is an effect of your brain not being able to replenish the chemicals lost during ejaculation. I would take a break for a while. Relax and go out and do some stuff you enjoy. Try to keep stress to a minimum and think about it as little as possible. After a week or two, go back and reassess the problem and see where you stand.

Hm well to help you understand maybe the cause...

I m sensitive as a personality .. I did some excess masturbating when I was younger but now maybe its not the case..Cause its been years since that..

I have a performance anxiety for sure , look what happens , when I first kissed my girl , I had a full erection[!] and when we started rubbing and it came the time to remove my pants...Zero,it dropped...

So this is 99% psychological isnt it?


As for the other thing....I am dependend from sleep / nutrition more than others..If dont sleep well [8hours] then nothing works....

I'd agree that it's likely mental. If you are in the right mental state, you can keep your erection and are able to orgasm. You might, however, have this problem because of other problems...

From what i've learned, this sounds like it could be a common mixture of physical and psychological causes. To take some real action and help your situation, you might want to go to a urologist...They are well versed in these matters, and see them in all ages of men. They should be able to run tests to see if you are getting proper blood flow to the penis, which is essential to maintaining erections. The cold hands and feet indicate a possible circulation problem. A urologist can discuss treatment options. Ed is a medical condition and is more common than people think...Mostly because people are afraid to discuss it.

Please do not be afraid to discuss anything with your dr, if some things do not get treated early, they can get worse later such as cold hands aandd cold feet(possibly a circulatiion problem), I am not a dr but I have a neuro problem that wasn't treated until it was too late and I live with pain and numbness 24/7. If you do not be honest and up-front with your dr he cannot treat your situation correctly.
Good luck!

I can see an urologist but what will I say to him?

Maybe its better to speak to a heart-expert about this issue that has to do with circulation of blood...
My mother also has this symptom ..Cold hands/feet ...

Any idea what test should I do in specific?