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hayek1989
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Location: Orlando
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Lost
Posted: 11-30-05 09:13am
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Hey everyone. I feel so stupid, but I
don't know what else to do. I'm 15 and
pregnant. Over a 1 month period I had sex
with more than 1 guy. My boyfriend and I
broke up after a really bad fight and he
had sex with a friend of mine. I wanted
to get him back so I did the same. I
slept with a few of his friends and some
other guys he didn't like. Now I could be
pregnant by any one of them and I don't
know how to find out who the father is. I
don't want to end up on springer for
this.
Amanda
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shugar
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Posted: 11-30-05 16:22pm
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Wow,,,just pray that your not pg and if
you are then dont abort..Adopt the baby
out
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 12-07-05 18:40pm
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Im not sure the other poster got what you
said. You are pregnant you just dont know
which one is the father right? First
deal with you and your baby. Go see a
doctor and find out how far you are and
the estimated conception date. Use that
and which ones were protected sex and
which ones werent add in which ones
actually ejaculated inside you and hope to
narrow it down. If this doesnt help they
do paternatity test without going on
nation tv. But then again do you really
need to know which one is the dad? Are
you considerng keeping the baby? Because
adoptive parents wont care which one is
the father. And if you are keeping the
baby there are plenty of ways to do this
yourself you dont need a boys help.
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imdababydaddy
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005
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Posted: 12-07-05 19:34pm
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Damn girl....Ufff......I think u need to
go to maury and take dem niggas dere....
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SUMONE_WHO_CARES
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Joined: 31 Oct 2005
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Location: MARYLAND
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Sumone_who_cares
Posted: 12-07-05 19:37pm
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Hey grl well listing up..........If all
dat happen dan dat best thing 2 do is
check ny a blood test if u is have the
cell removed.......Becuz it wont be fair 2
u so young as well 4 the baby n its future
wit a single mom ur age.......Well good
luck....................
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 12-07-05 22:20pm
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To someonewhocares:
whats wrong with single moms? I am lucky
to have a supportive husband but there are
plenty of girls out there whos bf or babys
daddy or whatever dont help and they are
fully capable and good mothers. In fact
two of my friends are teen mothers and
have no support from the fathers of there
children but they are getting along just
fine without them. Women are strong we
can grow another life inside us! No one
needs a man to help them raise their
babies
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diamondsz
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Posted: 12-08-05 06:57am
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I agree with macysmomma
I have 4 friends who are single moms
from ages 16-23 so it really depends one
of the cases the father walked out on the
baby when she was 4 months sad
sad....................
All of my friends are doing really well,
they have their days but thats why we all
keep in contact were all a form of support
for the other, dont listen to anyone else
hun I guess until your a single mom you
will never understand what it is truly
like. Just understand that if your child
wants to know who the dad is when she gets
older then you have a problem if you dont
get some sort of testing done even if the
dad is an @$$ at least ur daughter will
know that you did your best...
Jess
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ls9897
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For Macy
Posted: 12-08-05 10:29am
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Does that mean they are on welfare cause
if you call that doing realy good no they
are not cause we all have to pay for that
if someone teen is doing great on welfare
they dont have very high standards
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diamondsz
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Really!?
Posted: 12-08-05 11:01am
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One of buddy was on welfare till she got
daycare as there are long waiting list so
how do you work without daycare??? Well
she a dental hygenist can get work
anywhere but no one to watch her kid are
you telling me that you would rather have
moms neglect their children???
Im a working mom and I have my 16 mths old
on three incredibly waiting list till she
gets one she has been jumping from family
members and neighbors im on mat leave
now.........
My friend who was collecting has a
college degree a home and no one here to
help her so in the end she doing pretty
incredibly good
I dont mind my money going to welfare
for ppl like her she deserved it its ppl
who abuse the system so dont judge and the
rest arent on welfare as they have a
significant other but she left her when
she found out he did
crack...............Which makes her a
really good mom for putting her childs
needs first
jess
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SUMONE_WHO_CARES
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Sumone_who_cares
Posted: 12-08-05 12:15pm
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Well am sayin she only 15 come on who
knows if she have a job if she have
parents whom will help her u feel me? She
will finish 2 go 2 school just because she
will have a baby who no one will sopposrt?
I mean not everyone have the same luck u
feel me? And these are my opinions
because I know how hard it is am sayin my
sister had her 1st baby at age 18 n she
left him with my mother when he was only 6
months old I mean she is now 22 n she
still not ready 2 be a mother.....This
baby have no mom or dad I woundt like any
oda baby 2 go trew this.....
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 12-08-05 13:29pm
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To the welfare question no both of them
have jobs there baby goes to daycare
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diamondsz
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Posted: 12-08-05 14:01pm
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To someone who cares
really depends on the person i'm 21 and
got prego at 19 once in a blue moon I ask
my mom to watch my daughter cause I need a
break but that is usually a few
hours.......
Its sad when someone doesnt take
responsibility for their child, im going
on 22 in a few days but im expecting #2
feb 2 but I will never ditch my
kids..........
I still go out and party with friends
while someone watches my daughter and I
enjoy just getting that once a month and
sometimes I was lucky and got twice a
month.........Everyone is different I just
want you guys to know that things either
go good or bad so really depends on the
person and if they understand what is
going to happen after...
Good luck to you young moms!!!
Jess
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