I'm a doctor and what you're describing
sounds like "balantitis", which is
probably caused by phimosis (tight
foreskin). If your foreskin is too
tight, you may need to have it looked at
by a doctor. You may need corrective
surgery to loosen the skin or a
circumcision.
Regarding your hygiene, you should wash
the head of your penis several times a
day. One trick: buy pre-moistened wipes
(like the kind used for babies, "butt
wipes") and every time you urinate, pull
your foreskin back and thoroughly wipe the
head of your penis and the corona (ring
around the head). Make sure no lint or
smegma builds up around the head, and keep
the urine off it.
Another trick, when you're in your
bedroom, alone, walk around nude and let
your genitals "air out". Keeping them
trapped in underwear and pants all day
keeps the moisture and bacteria trapped
inside the foreskin. If you are nude
more, if possible, you'll avoid bacterial
buildup. Also, when you're nude, or in
private, retract your foreskin more
often.
Proper hygiene is keeping it clean more
than once per day.
Check out this link:
http://www.Ti
scali.Co.Uk/lifestyle/healthfitness/health
_advice/netdoctor/archive/000212.Html
