My mom is convienced im pregnant because
how I have felt and all that, and still
have not had my period. I have a doctors
appt. On december 8th to tell for sure.
Anyway, I do have a good boyfriend who I
do not think would leave me but I don't
know how to break the news to him if the
test comes back positive??? He has a
really good job, but has so many bills and
stuff, he still has to live at home with
his parents, and I live with my parents
because im not quite 18 yet. I don't
have a job right now, and he never has any
money after paying bills. I just don't
know how we are going to do this or how I
will tell him???
Any advice I would be grateful for
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chanee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 124 Location: detroit
Posted: 11-29-05 22:40pm
Hi first u have to slow down and breath if
u can believe this I did'nt have any money
with my first child my bf had min paying
job.And I was scared shittless.But things
slowly but surely started coming
together.Guys some times dont take to
females being pregnant like we do.But it's
when they see bascially there lil mini
me's .They change.And I also think how mad
could he be it's not like it's ur fault ur
pregnant it takes two.So I would make sure
i'm 100% pregnant then I would go from
there.But planning when I found out is
key.Do a little at a time.It will all come
together
kk. Good luck and god bless you
chanee
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 11-29-05 22:53pm
First wait until after your dr's
appointment to know for sure if you're
pregnant or not. I was going to wait
until after my appointment when I first
found out but didn't, although I had 3
positive hpts so I knew I was. I didn't
know how to tell my bf either because we
have a fairly complicated relantionship
and we weren't actually seeing each other
then, just friends having fun, plus I had
only known him 2 months when I got
pregnant. Not exactly the best way to
have a child with someone but it happened.
When I told him he did kind of freak a
little, and then went mia for almost 2
weeks, but later apologized and explained
that he was just shocked which I
understood. All in all he handled it
really well, a lot better then I ever
expected, and he's been there for me
since. I know it seems scarey to think
about especially worrying about the money
part, but if you are pregnant you'll find
way to work it all out, plus you'll
probably have the support of your family
and friends which helps so much.
