Teen Pregnancy Forum - I Have a Problem And I'm 16.

I just turned 16 in september. I have a loving girlfriend, we've been together about 5 months. I love her with all my heart. But last weekend I made a big mistake. I got out with the wrong crowd and smoked marijuana. I dont know what to do. I know I had sex with some girl, I know her but I really wish I hadnt.

I have no idea what to do, she may be pregnant. I told my girlfriend and she is devestated but we love each other too much to let go. But if this other girl is pregnant I dont know what i'm going to do. Life was perfect before this, please give me some advice or something. :( i'm about to go crazy. I cant support or take care of a kid at this age.

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d1rekt

replied on November 28th, 2005

New User

Bump, sorry im just really nervous and depressed

19mommy

replied on November 29th, 2005

Experienced User

Re: I Have a Problem And I'm 16.

d1rekt wrote:

i just turned 16 in september. I have a loving girlfriend, we've been together about 5 months. I love her with all my heart. But last weekend I made a big mistake. I got out with the wrong crowd and smoked marijuana. I dont know what to do. I know I had sex with some girl, I know her but I really wish I hadnt.

I have no idea what to do, she may be pregnant. I told my girlfriend and she is devestated but we love each other too much to let go. But if this other girl is pregnant I dont know what i'm going to do. Life was perfect before this, please give me some advice or something. :( i'm about to go crazy. I cant support or take care of a kid at this age.

let her take a test, and im sorry I have no comforting words, but it was your fault and your have to take responsibilties for your actions. I must admit I am proud of you for telling your gf, maybe this other girl doesnt want the baby herself and you both can look into adoption. But goodluck, with all of that

lynn387

replied on December 1st, 2005

New User

I agree that you have to take the blame for what you did. I am 18 and I use to be addicted to pot. I just do not understand how your perception could be bad enough for you to have sex with another girl if you loved your girlfriend so much... I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years now, and I am almost 5 months pregnant. But if he ever told me that he cheated on me, I wouldn't be able to handle it. I actually had a dream last night that he had went and got high with my sister...Lol...What a coincidence....

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