My 1st it hurt but after that I didnt, if it still hurts try to do it more. And maybe he didnt pop your cherry yet, b/c sometimes you can pop it but not all the way, tell him to go deep to make sure that it pop. B/c when it pops it will feel good after that. My 1st time mine got poped theys why it didnt hurt after that. Hope this helps let me know!!!

It's probably a lack of foreplay. If my husband doesn't get me wet enough, it hurts to have sex. Men have a tendancy to "stick it in" a little too soon. Tell him to slowly put it in, it should help with the pain=)

This is going to sound gross, immature and invasive, but i'm going to ask anyways: have you tried the finger? I think that's helped me get used to it, it's probably what broke my hymen. Again, i'm sure that this is like going back to early teen years, but it's my advice.

We tried again this morning, and it still hurt, but the more we went on it hurt a little less. It was still painful. Is this a good sign? Is there anything that could be wrong with me? Like, is there some vaginal issue that causes painful sexual intercourse? The thing is though, nothing feels wrong down there, it doesn't itch and there's no abnormal discharge. And no solar001, i've never used a finger, and barely ever tampons.

I'm just really freaked out, I don't want anything to be wrong with me and I want to have some good sex

I wa slike that for a month... Everybody is different. Try inserting slowly and sitting still for a whilee then try having sex. It workied forme. I use to be scared to have sex the next day after I broke my virginity, because I didn't want it to hurt. Try getting on top, different positions. If you feel as though there somethings wrong go to the clinc. You might have cervical abrsions,. It's common in girls. Maybe he might have been rough your first time and your body has to adapt to it. You don' tfeel anything if you have abrasions, but you'll bleed after sex or it may feel wird when you pee. If you don' twant to go to the doctors abrsions heal on there own, but if you start to feel pain in your abdominal area you could have scare tissue(highly unlikely) then you should go to the doctors.

Ok, I did some online research and maybe he's hitting my cervix? At the point, the pain is really only evident when he reaches the end of each thrust (sorry for being graphic). Could this be it?

It could because it happened to me and it hurt for several (4days) afterwards

Times can be tough. When you start your session, foreplay for a while. Have him lick and suck your virgina. His saliva should lubracate the inner. Now if your extremly tight then you or your friend should try the three finger method. Insert one finger and play gently, then another,then another. Be sure to use lubracation jelly and you will enjoy.

Sally :wink: