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Q: I Dont Want to Do the Pull Out I Want Protection!
asked by: stlplaya_lilc on November 24th, 2005
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Hey, I really want to tell myboyfriend that I dont want to do the pull out thing no more! I want to use protection, but how is he gon take it?, how should I tell him, what if he gets mad?

I dont know what to do I already think im pregnant and if I am im goin to be dead, plus how would I tell him that? Will he be there for me? I have so many q's but no answers...
1)will he take care of the baby if I am pregnant?
2)should I get an abortion if I am pregnant?
3)should I tell my parents, even do they will kill me?
Please help me!
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Sarah1978
replied on November 24th, 2005
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If your boyfriend gets mad at you for wanting to use some protection then you are better off without him. This is just as much his responsibilty as it is yours. Just be honest and tell him you don't feel comfortable having sex without protection any more, i'm sure he will understand.

If you think you could be pregnant take a test before you start to freak out too much.

Good luck.
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sweetbabyrae
replied on November 24th, 2005
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I agree...Hes not worth it if he cant do it the way you want him to. That is your choice.
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Carifairy
replied on November 24th, 2005
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I am 23 and in the nursing field. Any man who won't use protection is not worth you! Second abortion is a decision you should make yourself, not by being forced. If you want to have an abortion, then yes it is an option. You also do not parents consent, and if you need help with this you can email me. Some states do not require parents consent, and you can travel to others. You can also get a judicial bypass which lets you get an abortion without parents. Call planned parenthood they offer birth control and pregnancy testing without parents consent.
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~baby~g~
replied on November 25th, 2005
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Hun, if you don't want to do the pull out method then tell him that, if he doesn't like it then oh well, it's your body. You're 13, you shouldn't be having sex anyways but if you are then you need to get protected..Wait until your older to have a child. If you are pregnant then you need to tell your parents, so you can the the right care for you and the baby. As for abortion, I think it's wrong because you're the one who got yourself pregnant, not the babys fault, but again that is your decision. Always think about adoption 2! I'm here if you need to talk!! <3
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