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Q: I Like Her, I Think She Likes Me But...
asked by: norwood on November 22nd, 2005
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We are both incredibly shy on the phone and will probobly be even more reserved in person.

I met this girl online about a month ago and I didnt even have the thought of starting a relationship. Well as time has gone on I find myself very intrigued and attracted to this girl. She has a great sense of humor, we have a lot of similar interests, shes really cute and in general we're so much alike its scary sometimes. However, most of this i've seen from her online and i've always been a little cautious about online anything.

I've talked with her a few times over the phone and she is just so quiet and reserved, seemingly uninterested. I'm a very shy person as well so you can imagine how conversation over the phone is a bit difficult. I try to break up those moments of uncomfortable silence, but she doesnt seem to take to it. Yet I get online and we dont have any problems at all.

If anyone has any advice, helpful hints, or experiance that might help me I would appreciate it a lot. I would really like to meet this girl and see if we could possibly take this somewhere, but the shyness between us makes this very hard.
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hellohi
replied on November 23rd, 2005
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Hello. I know exactly the feeling. I'm a girl who was in a similar situation. Well I met this guy through aim from my friend. And we hit it off pretty well. We were absolutely comfortable talking to each other online. But we were so nervous to meet. When we finally did meet in person, I admit that it felt extrmemly awkward. We didnt even try the phone because we knew it would be too awkward. Im usually outgoing but I was extremely shy. And trust me... It's a good thing to be shy when you meet someone because then it shows that you like them. So trust me... She likes you :)

anyway, back to the story, things felt like they were going downhill. We got so nervous in person. But then I realized that if I truly liked this guy and I wanted it to work, then I would just adapt myself. And I did. My determination to be involved with this guy caused me to come out of my shell (his too). He is my first boyfriend and we are still together. We've been together for over 10 months. Now when we look back, we laugh at how awkward it used to be for us

so my advice to you: if you really want to get to know her, then go for it! Good luck :)
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~baby~g~
replied on November 25th, 2005
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If you like her then go for it hun! When you're getting to know someone, of course you're going to be shy. I'm the same way, I mean you don't know what this persons reaction would be when you say something, so you have to get to know them & their personality.


I met my bf online, well kinda, we went to the same school *homeschool* he lived like a hour from me, he dated one of my good friends & was friends with my bf at the time..Well we used to dislike each other lots, then one day I saw a website of his and we started talking..The first time I talked to him on the phone I barely said 10 words, now I look back and im like wow...But its a pert of getting to know them. We've now been together for 10 months, planning on getting engaged soon, and we now see each other all the time...


Don't give up....I'm sure she likes you :)
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