My husband and I have been together for 8 yrs (married for 4). He takes forever to finish. I thought maybe he wasn't turned on enough so I started giving him oral sex pretty much every time before we have sex. Half of the time we have sex he will get frustrated that he can't finish so he will just stop. He asked a urologist about it a few years ago and the doc basically said that my husband should feel lucky must men have the opposite problem. But it is a big problem b/c of the fact that he has to give up 1/2 the time. We have a great sex life and are very comfortable with each other. I don't know what to do. He always makes sure that I am satisfied so I feel horrible when he isn't.