You are having your kids close together...Lots braver then I am!! Not trying to be mean or anything but if you are having so much trouble out of your two children, why have another so soon?? Just wondering. I don't think that there is much you can do for your two children, they are at that age where they are not going to listen very well. Anyways, welcome to the forum! I hope you find what you are looking for here. Good luck with your pregnancy.

God bless and good luck,
teresa

The stuff with my other two kids has been going on fo a long while now. I didn't want another one but it just happened this one was not planned it was a big surprise.

Hi jen

i thought you were my sister for a mo then I looked at your message lol as my sis calls herself jen or jen jen !!

Well kids feed on your anxietys they can tell and in doing so run rings around you... You need to be firm and stick to the word no!!!. Have you tried time outs? They are very effective.
Use this time while you are pregnant to I know this sounds weird but retrain your kids into a new routine. It will be hard at first but believe me it will all be worth it in the end..

Hi little lisa,

i have tried time outs, spankings, not getting treats if they are bad all of that. I think the problems are from the grandparents letting them have whatever they want.............Which I have tried my best to stop. My husband has tried to even help out with these two also no luck. Do you have any idea of how to potty train a girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I gave birth to twins back in may. I now have 4 children. I became extremely depressed ever since I was diagnosed with eclampsia. Now I have heart failure and high blood pressure. The cardio told me that my heart was very weak and to be careful. Death is near and I am only 28. Somedays I am feeling ok and then all of a sudden I am depressed. At the time of the c-section, I also had a tubal ligation. I have been having symptoms from my tubes being tied. Now my memory is off and I have not been right since. People think I am crazy and my husband has not been supportive at all. He has been cold-hearted and insensitive to my feelings. When I do need him the most he is not there to rescue me. I am crying for help and need someone to talk to who is in my shoes. I am bitter and angry. My children needs me but I have not been a supportive mom. I wish someone understands what I am going through.

Hey t. My name is teresa, and i'd be glad to talk to you and try to help you out.
i'm at work right now and was just about to go out the door but after reading your post I decided to post back and give you my adress. I'll get back to you on monday if you decide to e-mail me. I'll be here for about another hour if you'd like to e-mail me now. You can pour your heart out if you need to...I'll listen and be supportive.



God bless and good luck,
teresa

hope to talk to ya soon!