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Q: What Should I Do?

asked by: laneahawkinss on November 22nd, 2005

New User

I may be preg. But I did tell the guy that I have missed my period he say it cant be the rubber didnt break.And plus he has another girl that he just told be about preg with his baby and she is 6 months preg. If I am preg I know that I am going to have to do it by myself and I dont want that to happen and he might not take care of my child thinking that he is not the dad b/c the condom didnt break. But I know that I wasnt havig sex with anyone else..............What should I do

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Carifairy

replied on November 22nd, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I think you should do what you feel is best for you! I have had an abortion, 3 actually. I know as a nurse and a woman that birth control is not perfect 100% of the time. I do not regret my abortions, and am greatful that I had a choice. It is best to do some soul searching deep inside, and if abortion is right for you, then it's right for you. And you do not have to listen or believe any attacks made against you.

lil_blaze2004

replied on November 22nd, 2005

Supporter

It would be better if you posted this question in the pregnancy forum or the abortion support forum.

But before anything, find out for sure if you are pregnant.

Tylanas

replied on November 22nd, 2005

Especially eHealthy

Re: What Should I Do?

laneahawkinss wrote:

i may be preg. But I did tell the guy that I have missed my period he say it cant be the rubber didnt break.And plus he has another girl that he just told be about preg with his baby and she is 6 months preg. If I am preg I know that I am going to have to do it by myself and I dont want that to happen and he might not take care of my child thinking that he is not the dad b/c the condom didnt break. But I know that I wasnt havig sex with anyone else..............What should I do

definatly find out you're pregnant first. How late is your period? Did you just start dating this guy? (within the last 6 months apparently, unless he was cheating on you...)

you can get a paternity test which will force him to care for the baby, if you decide to keep it. There is always the choice of abortion. Then you can just mov on with your life! At this point, if you are pregnant, abortions are through pills you take, which indice someting akin to a very heavy period with cramping. No one sucks anything out of your uterus, there are no little baby parts at this point.

If you're averse to abotion, you can always carry the baby full term and give it up for adoption, which is another wonderful option. You have lots of choices at this point.

Find out if you're pregnnt; buy a test, etc. Thn move on from there.

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