I put all my weight on my stomach, I was obsessed with getting abs and a flat stomach but it seemed like an endless battle. But I came to understand that any fat goes directly to my stomach, so unless I eat like a fiend I will never have washboard abs. I am ok with that, the main thing that does also help is a constant routine of exercise and diet, after 6 months of exercising 3 times a week and a pretty regular diet I finally lost 5 kilos in about a month. I am down to 56kilos and I still have fat on my stomach. You just have to accept it sometimes