Medical Questions > General Forum Topics > General Q and A Forum

I Tried the Hold And Cuddle With My Husband....doesn't Work!

Must Read

Pain

Chronic pain affects more than 70 million Americans. But what is pain? And how can pain management help relieve different types of pain? Basic facts here....

Related Topics

Have You Have Tried Kombucha?

I Tried Animal M Stak And It Freakin' Ro...

Have U Tried

betterknow

November 17th, 2005

First of all thanks for responding. Well, I thought about the cuddle thing too. When we watch a movie, he sits a little farther away, when I give him a nice squeezy hug, his arms seem looser, and he seldom initiates sex! He has something to blame everytime, like, I don't like the food I ate, my stomach hurt, why am I so tired, and its almost like he wants to get away without having sex and wants me to sympathise with him! He doesn't have it even though all the the time I say, "i'll do the work", but the other night he's like, may be you should try something new. And ladies, I am as adventure lover as it goes! He does work with his ex, with who he had a miscarriage and somewhat good sex life, well, he wanted more than sex and the girl told him right upfront that she is in it for sex only. You think it has something to do with it??

Did you find this post helpful?

Jessica_CF20

replied November 27th, 2005

Experienced User

Re: I Tried the Hold And Cuddle With My Husband....doesn't W

betterknow wrote:

first of all thanks for responding. Well, I thought about the cuddle thing too. When we watch a movie, he sits a little farther away, when I give him a nice squeezy hug, his arms seem looser, and he seldom initiates sex! He has something to blame everytime, like, I don't like the food I ate, my stomach hurt, why am I so tired, and its almost like he wants to get away without having sex and wants me to sympathise with him! He doesn't have it even though all the the time I say, "i'll do the work", but the other night he's like, may be you should try something new. And ladies, I am as adventure lover as it goes! He does work with his ex, with who he had a miscarriage and somewhat good sex life, well, he wanted more than sex and the girl told him right upfront that she is in it for sex only. You think it has something to do with it??

well I can tell you from experience during tv time is not the best time to cuddle my hubby hates it when I try to cuddle during a movie all guys are different though when he said try something new he may have meant by yourself ???? He might be feeling that he doesnt want this relationship to be like the last one so he is hiding his wants and feelings so he wont get hurt again? Just a thought have you talked to him I mean like you talk to us here? That might help it is the best way to go good luck sweetie

jessica

Did you find this post helpful?


	Tags: adventure, stomach, tired, food, sex, food and sex, tired all the time

Learn About Us

Get Help

Join In

Do More

We comply with the HONcode standard for trustworthy health
information:
verify here.

The site is not a replacement for professional medical opinion, examination, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the advice of your medical doctor or other qualified health professional before starting any new treatment or making any changes to existing treatment. Do not delay seeking or disregard medical advice based on information written by any author on this site. No health questions and information on eHealth Forum is regulated or evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and therefore the information should not be used to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease without the supervision of a medical doctor. Posts made to these forums express the views and opinions of the author, and not the administrators, moderators, or editorial staff and hence eHealth Forum and its principals will accept no liabilities or responsibilities for the statements made.
This page was last updated on May 25, 2013.
© 2010 eHealthForum.com