Basically, ive had a girldfriend for about
a year, im 17. And im all gung-ho for the
waiting till your in love to loose my
virginity. Her not being a virgin, wants
sex. And im perfectly willing to give it
to her after a year.
When watching porn, or thinking about
anything terribly sexual, I can only last
about 5 mins masterbating. Am I going to
have a problem with premature ejaculation?
Ive checked out all the start stop
things, and im working on it. I really
dont care about me, I really just want to
be able to give her what she wants without
embarassment or awkwardness.
**grammer is for loosers
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Just_Shoot_Me
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Ontario
Posted: 11-15-05 23:50pm
It depends on the person. Porn makes me
get off, but the first time I got laid I
lasted over 30 mins. All this how fast u
get off is how long u will last blah blah
blah, it's just a bunch of crap. If you
really want to impress her and your scared
you won't last too long, give her oral for
at least 15-20 mins so she orgasims faster
and it's better so she may forget about
how long u lasted. But all in all it just
depends on the person
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cd998776
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Posted: 11-16-05 17:39pm
Just shoot me makes some good points.
Orgasms/ejaculations are mostly mental,
and it's based on how you feel, and how
you perceive the stimmulation to be. If
you feel you do indeed to last longer, you
might try masturbating prior to sex, or
learning kegels. Kegels will take some
time, but with time, you'll be able to
control your ability to orgasm/ejaculate.
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roflzor6666
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Joined: 17 Nov 2005 Posts: 55
Posted: 11-17-05 08:04am
Yeah if I havnt wanked in like 2 days or
whatever I spoof in like 1min but if I
wanked like 30mins ago then I can last for
5mins.
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cd998776
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Posted: 11-17-05 16:55pm
Correct.
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cd998776
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Posted: 11-17-05 16:56pm
Correct. And logically that makes sense
does it not?
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redzonebikes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 47
Posted: 11-17-05 22:37pm
I would recommend masturbating to the
thought of the girl and get use to seeing
and imagining her naked, this could help
the anxiety, also you really should
masturbate once if not 2,3 times
beforehand because this will at least
guarantee you to last longer if did not
get off beforehand. But besides, she is
your girl man, she wont care about the
first time and she is probably expecting u
to blow your load quick, and if you do
just have sex again and again and you will
get use to it and start to last longer.
Also, my first time was like the last
posts aboce, if you do foreplay that burns
time and then after penetration, thrust
slowly and if you feel it coming, just
pause for a moment and then keep going, it
worked for me my first time. But most of
all enjoy it, youll never forget this
night, and it may be the best memory of
your life
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redzonebikes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 47
Posted: 11-17-05 22:37pm
I would recommend masturbating to the
thought of the girl and get use to seeing
and imagining her naked, this could help
the anxiety, also you really should
masturbate once if not 2,3 times
beforehand because this will at least
guarantee you to last longer if did not
get off beforehand. But besides, she is
your girl man, she wont care about the
first time and she is probably expecting u
to blow your load quick, and if you do
just have sex again and again and you will
get use to it and start to last longer.
Also, my first time was like the last
posts aboce, if you do foreplay that burns
time and then after penetration, thrust
slowly and if you feel it coming, just
pause for a moment and then keep going, it
worked for me my first time. But most of
all enjoy it, youll never forget this
night, and it may be the best memory of
your life
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cd998776
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Posted: 11-17-05 23:28pm
I would say masturbate once prior to sex,
but no more. Masturbating more than once
may cause you to become less arroused
during sex, making it difficult for you to
keep your erection or orgasm/ejaculate.
