I've recently just had sex for the first time (i'm 25) and it was a bit painful (stinging pain) but my bf was really careful and went in as slowly as possible, and I bled a little bit for about 3 days and had discomfort walking. I was wondering if thats normal?
And me and my bf had sex again (the 2nd time) after 3 months. I was surprised that it was still painful and even more painful than my first time. Is this normal to have pain still? We had sex yesterday and it was painful then, and I am having some discomfort today too... Kind of like lower back pain and some pain around the hips. Like my lower back and hips are sore.
My bf said that it could be possible that my hymen could still be partially intact, or that it never broke at all. Could this be possible? And how could I check this?

Thanks a lot!
I'm really worried because I do not like the pain...