The best way to re-harden a man for more pleasure is, no suprise, fervent oral sex. Sponging him off with a warm washcloth in between adds a nice touch some men respond better by having there nipples licked or there entire bodt caressed sometimes its the vision of you pleasuring yourself that makes himrock-hard once again.
302 advanced techniques for driving a man wild in bed by st. Claire

Masterbat infront of him, and tikle the head of his penis with your tounge. Works for me.

You should create new styles you have not used before . Try to know what plesses him, without hurting him. Change your own wearing styles .

Try your best to find out what he enjoys in the bed.

Do you use condoms?
I've been told its hard for a guy to stay hard with condoms on (if he is used to having sex without them)

Or what you could do is give him head or a hand job for like 5 minutes before sex. Usually head helps a lot. That way he is really hard going in and is more likely to stay hard and orgasm. Of course it makes sex faster but if would help him stay erect.

A related question

my boyfriend wont want to have sex with me two days in a row because he says his "guy is tired and needs to rest." sometimes we do but he wont be able to ejaculate and I think this might be the problem? Any comments?

My boyfriend is the same way. He doesn't say its cause he is tired but he says in order for sex to be good its better to do it every other day. He says if you do it everyday than you tend to lose the excitement.

And to add to that if we do have sex a lot, like everyday, it does take a lot longer for him to cum. Thats another reason why to do it every other day.

maybe he has another woman and she is tireing him out? It is a possibility.

I kinda think a slow start is the answer to many 'sexual' questions, for example the longer foreplay last the closer to an orgasm you are when you actually start. And too, he don't have to be 'ready' the whole time foreplay is happening....

I really like the post about touching yourself in front of him, on many levels this is good, maybe both of you at the same time?.

Was wondering also if he was under a lot of stress, are'nt we all... A shared hot bath, and candles sometimes is a great for a no pressure thing ya might want to do... Or even for him alone, with bubbles, and a budweiser... Lol

or... If it persist, he may want to talk to his doctor, ya know?


There is my seventyone sense :roll: ....~haha~ hope it helps!

Seventyonedragonflies

Just find out wut turns him on.

I think the original question was about sex two times in a row. It's hard to get a guy hard after he just ejaculated because his sperm count is lower and he just got rid of all of the...Um...'worked up ness" inside of him. It does take a little longer to get him to stay hard but if you work long enough you'll get that little man goin again. It could take almost an hour tho hun, depending on your man.
But I agree with the suggestions of oral sex or other things instead of going right into it.