Niki hey hunny!! Wow so she finally is pregnant!Lol! If she didnt want it she should have used protection! And thats the most stupidest thing ive ever heard shes 19 and still gets grounded .Thats crazy!!!I thaught my family was bad damn!Lol!!!Welll my day is okay I guess! Its been pretty boring and tomorrow I get out of school early I get otu at 11:35 b/c theres testing fro the freshman and sophomores!! Fun!Lol! Not! But I might see my boy im not sure! Well I better go! Much love
jen
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baby thunder

I wanna get out early too! Thats not fair. You should see my friend! She has your parents beat! They are mean! They dont even like me! I dont care though. But yeah she still gets in trouble and I laugh at her, like how old are you again? But she says she has to go by the rules because she doesnt pay rent. Spoiled. Well I hope you see raven. How cold is it there? I dont like being cold, but I like snow. One time me and my mom went to these cabins with our church and it was snow up there, and I showed up in a dress and sandals! Lol. I was a little chilly! Luckily I had jeans and a jacket! I put on like all my dresses and pants just to keep warm! Lol.

I would have died if I had a curfew at 19, I didn't even follow rules at 16. But then again, I have a curfew now from mike and i'm 21. When does this end, lol!

Jennifer

It never ends! Once you finally get away from your parents you meet a guy and you still have rules! Lol. I dont have a curfew though, I dont even go out! Lol. If I did it would be with jose though! Our schedule is so boring!!!

Nikki, I know I am late on this post, but i've been sick..... Seems like I cannot get better! I just wanted to say wow. I didn't think your friend would really be preggo!

Wow....Curfews don't work with me now so my parents would be crazy to think I would follow them at 19. Lol. As for any guy tryin to give me a curfew, i'd give him a mouthful. I don't take crap from guys. When they mess up, they are gone. (with the exception of dewitt and i'm glad I gave him another chance.) but jennifer, I really think mike is pushing you way too far. If you had acted like he did when he needed a cigarette, he woulda prolly packed up and left. And if he woke the baby up I woulda smacked him. You don't have to take that kind of dis respect. Yeah ok your in your kids room playing with yourself. He's sick. I really think you should try and leave him if at all possible. I'm not telling you to make a hasty and ignorant decision. But from what you tell me, he's been mist-treating you for a while and won't even get a job and expects to get more sleep than you? I understand that you love him reguardless and believe me, I know how hard it is to leave someone you love. Especially your first love. But I really think you should try and scrape up w/e you can and get the hell outta there cuz no one deserves to be treated like that. You tell him to just wait till josh is born. Ima beat him up! Lol. But really girl, I truly wish you would consider it because I really hate to see you in that situation. You never know, soon he might start beating you, or even worse, your poor children. I know you don't want that. So please consider it. I'm here if you need me. Love ya girl.

But your only 14. If you were mine youd have a curfew of 9. And if it doesnt work then you dont go out at all. Lol im gonna be strict like my mom. Tough love. My mom not only gave us a curfew but if we were at a friends, shed want the number, shed call and check in, and shed ask the mom if it was ok that we go. And shed drop us off and pick us up. My curfew at 16 was 10. And if I was over 10 minutes late I had boot camp. She would get me up at 4 to go running until 6, then I had to get ready for school, then after school I went to work, then I had to go to jazzersize with her, you know how gay jazzersize is!!!? Then is was the same routine for a week. I never came late again. I dont care how early I was or if other girls were out late. I was not gonna run at 4 again. But its good that she was strict. Im gonna be the same way. When your young you hate it but when your older your wiser and you respect it like that. I think I would be young, pregnant, no job and nothing if she hadnt been strict and make me work since I was 15. I love my mom.
And about a curfew from a guy, you say that now but trust me. He'll have you in early too. Its the way it works.
Jen you can make it. Hang in there. You love him and love can override anything. It will get better.

Nikki did you get my p.M.???

Yup, I replied too! I feel special. Im gonna pull it up on map quest and see how far you are from me! Lol

Hey you are only 313.39 miles, 4 hours and 45 minutes. Not too bad huh! Lol. You are pretty close by. Decatur. What a funny name for a street...

I know I live near tropican and decatur pretty close to the casinos neat huh? So please everyone who wants in on this pm me and I will give you my address!!

No really nikki, I wouldn't put up with any guy trying to control me. I don't like going out much anyways. I prefer to stay home so I personally don't think I would have much of a problem with this. I don't see any reason for a curfew for either spouse as long as you are home at a decent hour and the baby is taken care of. And I know i'm supposed to have a curfew and I do, I just don't follow it. And my parents don't even bother punishing me any more because they know it won't do them any good. I'm just a very defiant person. I defy authority because I can. I'm not really sure why. I dunno. I guess cause it gives me a feeling of control over myself. But I dunno. Me n my mom get along much better now though. I'd rather stay home and hang out with my mom than these gay people my age any day. Lol. I did get mean with her the other night because she has been working until 8 lately. And thats not that bad. But when she gets off at 8 and dont get home till 10, that made me upset cuz she knows thats our time to talk b4 I go to bed. But shes been coming home earlier. She just hates coming home and dealing with my step dad and brother same as I do. They r pricks. So I really don't blame her. But I know this will never change. It's one of the few principals I have. I will never let anyone control me, all they have to do is ask nicely if I could be home b4 a cetain time. I respond very well to someone who asks me questions rather than giving me commands. Ya know? I dunno. It's really ahrd to explain. I g2g. I'm making myself dizzy. Lol.

I just learned a very valuable lesson from you...Thank you. I think mike would like me to be that way also...I'll start asking him, rather than demanding him. It'll probably do us some good.

Anyway, how are you doing? How are dewitt and camerin? How is josh? How far are you now?

Jennifer