Oh honney he was listening to your stomach to see if all the normal grumbles and growls were going on there is no way he can tell if your preg with a stethescope but if your going to have surgery you need to find out if you are and you need to tell your doc that there is a possibility before your surgery date that is very important then you can go from there but usually they ask if there is any chance you might be preg. Before doing anything if they ask pls dont lie. God bless jessica

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Omg he already did ask me /and I told him no because he asked me right infront of my mom..!!! And I donot want my mom to know that the boy she trust so much was actuly having sexual intercourse with me.. She would freak out!.. What do I do??!?!?! Now.. I mean I took 3 pregancy test and all came out negative but I still have weird fellings in my stomach.... Help me .. But thank you very much jessica for actuly responding to me... Everyone else just passes this forum up as if im going to be getting my own answers with no hlep..


Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!

go to the docs. Alone and get a blood test done, if that turns up negative tell you doc that you think u might be pregnant and he might set you up for an ultrasound before your surgery

Ok the best thing to do is to if you can call the docs office and tell your doc but let him know you want everything to be in confidentiality or however you spell it lol if you can not call the next thing is when you go in ask to speak with your doc privatly they should respect that but if worse comes to wore you may have to tell your mom I hope thats not the case well not yet but if you are preg. For sure I would recomend you tell her asap the sooner the better but wait to see if its poss.
God bless
jessica

Aww thank you guys so much I really do appreciate it.. Im really scared though what if I am, how could I get 3 negative tests??? I dont understand!!


Thank you!!!!!!!!

i dont know why u'd get soo many negs. But it happens maybe the tests you bought were defective.

Yeah thats what I was thinking but .. Im hopeing they were right.. And im just feelling weird because of stress.. And I hope im still not getting it due to stress.. Man this is such a bad time!!. .. But thank you very much for your post.. I really appreciate.. People who try and help instead of people that just read it and have something to say but dont!.. Thank you!!!!!!!!

Usually before an operation you have blood test for many different reasons, but for women i'm pretty sure they test for pregnancy as well.
Have they not done blood tests?
If they have you can just ask your doctor what specifically they test for..

Hope everything works out for you!

yes but they took that blood test like.. In agust when I had to be rusehd to the er.. And havent had one since.. And this is recent that I have this thought that I could be preg.. Im really worried do you think they could posibly take it agian?.. Or if I tell him to take an ultrasound.. Will it "really" be confitental or will he spill the beans to my mom??...


Thank you for your help!!

yes they can....Just ask them. A blood test would be fine and accurate.
It seems as if you're really stressing about this-that's probably the reason for the delay of af..

Man o man today I got home and I checked the messages on the house phoneand there wqas a message left by one of the nurses I that ssaid hi this message is in regaurds of your daugher give us a call back.. Blah blah blah so my mom called and my mom just called me back and said that they are concernd about my perioud being 2 months late.. And on saterday I have an appt to take a pregancy test !!!! Who says that caca to my mom!!! Atlweast tell me so I can break it to her not the damn doctors.. Now what the hell do I do if I am.. Although I took 3 and all negative already.. Im still not sure.. My mom was questioning me like is ther anything you want to tell me?.. And I said nope.. And she was like do I need to call your boyfriend and I was like no why the helll would you do that and she was like because maybe he will tell me if I ask him.. She said I dident sound to convincing.. But I dident really want to sound that way eather and dident want to tell her I was having sex exactly because if I wasent then she would still know.. But if I am pregant. Then she would think I lyed to her really bad and she will go crazy on me if I convinced her I wasent.. So man I dont know what to do.. Im really scared!!!!!! Someone help me!!!!! Pleaseeeeeeee!!!!!!


Thanks

dont freak out just yet. Maybe u have a cyst thats making your period late and thats whats concerning them. Call them back tomorrow when your mom leave and ask them to speak directly to you and not your mom because docs. Are suppose to be confidential and they shouldnt be given out your info like that. But if you are and the doctor breaks it to your mom then it might make it easier for you....She certainly cant do nothing to you while in the docs office. Good luck on saturday keep us posted:d

thanks for the advice I appreciate it im just really scared.. Because I also have very few symptoms.. They seem to be the same symptoms I always have on a daily basis even before my late period like moody..Lol.. And tiredness.. Lol.. But anyways im really scared... I dont know what to do... Anynmore info please help me out.


Thank you

How old are you oakland_raiders925?

I will try to help as best I can.. Have the test done on saturday to find out for certain. Try not to worry until you find out for sure.
I have my fingers crossed for that negative.....

Im only 16.. Unfortionatly..But am really scared..!! Thank you for your support.

Thanky you!

I hope your not, if your mom gets involved just tell her you have been stressed about operation and even then if your taking b/c come of them can mess up your system.


I cant believ a nurse told your mom, are they even allowed to do that?? I know they cant here after 14 in quebec and 16 in other provinces.....

I wish you luck and trust me im prego and terrified of being cut open for c-section so I know that knot in your stomach feeling

take care!!
Jess

my doctor has been taken care of me and my sis since we were very little, and when my sister got a *yeast infection* he called and left the msg with my mom to tell her. Thats why I totally didnt want him involved with my pregnancy hes a big fat chatter box lol

What ever happened to doctor-patient confidentiality?

.E.X.A.C.T.L.Y!!!!! Thats what I said.. But anywho thank you all for your help I appreciate it!!!! Any more info you have please give it..Lol.. Thank you again!!