Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 19 Location: blue island IL
Need Help With My Mom An Dad!!!! Posted: 11-08-05 11:19am
Please someone help me, ok heres the
story, I went over to my baby daddy house
sunday night and ended up staying over
night. Well my mom says that wrong, (shes
not a god type of person) and that hes
going to jail and all this. I dont get it
all I did was stay over night there.
Whats so wrong about that??? And by the
way in 16 and hes 19(state law here is
only 4 years a part) and were only 2, I
dont get it please some one help.. My mom
thinks that were going back out which I
see nothing wrong with that eather!!
Help!!!!!!!!
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ryansmommy16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 72 Location: alabama
Posted: 11-08-05 13:31pm
If you already have a child by him what is
her problem? You do know that you are a
legal adult now right? She doesn't really
have a say in what you or your baby does.
And I believe whoever you chose to be
with as long as it is not dangerous to you
or the baby is none of her business. But
that is just my opinion.
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Re: Need Help With My Mom An Dad!!!! Posted: 11-08-05 13:34pm
mama0789
wrote:
please someone help me, ok
heres the story, I went over to my baby
daddy house sunday night and ended up
staying over night. Well my mom says
that wrong, (shes not a god type of
person) and that hes going to jail and all
this. I dont get it all I did was stay
over night there. Whats so wrong about
that??? And by the way in 16 and hes
19(state law here is only 4 years a part)
and were only 2, I dont get it please some
one help.. My mom thinks that were going
back out which I see nothing wrong with
that eather!!
Help!!!!!!!!
well there must be a reason your mom see a
problem with this I see one now. Iff you
guys are suppose to be broken up why are
you over there sleeping? If you want to
get your situation worse then it is, be
responsible. You should have called to
let her know you were staying the night
and if you guys are going back out inform
her. With your story it seems like your
keeping things away from her and she seems
very fed up. I think you should have a
talk with her and let her know whats up.
Because we dont know your family but you
do so you might as well be open
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simpleirishgirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Illinois, USA
Posted: 11-08-05 21:24pm
Until you are 18 years of age or live out
on your own, you do have to listen to your
parents rules
i can kind of see where she is coming
from
maybe talk to her about and see where she
is coming from, maybe make a compromise if
you feel it necessary to stay over at his
place?
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mama0789
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 19 Location: blue island IL
Re: Need Help With My Mom An Dad!!!! Posted: 11-09-05 10:28am
19mommy
wrote:
mama0789
wrote:
please someone help me, ok
heres the story, I went over to my baby
daddy house sunday night and ended up
staying over night. Well my mom says
that wrong, (shes not a god type of
person) and that hes going to jail and all
this. I dont get it all I did was stay
over night there. Whats so wrong about
that??? And by the way in 16 and hes
19(state law here is only 4 years a part)
and were only 2, I dont get it please some
one help.. My mom thinks that were
going back out which I see nothing wrong
with that eather!!
Help!!!!!!!!
well there must be a reason your mom see a
problem with this I see one now. Iff you
guys are suppose to be broken up why are
you over there sleeping? If you want to
get your situation worse then it is, be
responsible. You should have called to
let her know you were staying the night
and if you guys are going back out inform
her. With your story it seems like your
keeping things away from her and she seems
very fed up. I think you should have a
talk with her and let her know whats up.
Because we dont know your family but you
do so you might as well be
open
i stayed the night over there b/c it got
to late at night and he was ready for bed
and I was tired too.. And I would have
called but I knew that I dad wouild get up
and then all hell would have broke lose!
And I cant sit down and talk to her bout
anything, all she do it yell and scream!!
I dont understand why I just cant do what
im going to do, if we do infact get back
2gether then theres nothing she can do b/c
for one we have a baby 2gether and two...
I still have feelings for him and I know
he does for me/, you know what my mom so
crazy that she sliped out b/c o gave him a
hug be4 he left that morning I dont see
nothing worng with that at all... Were
just friends and he is that father of my
son. We have to be nice b/c of the baby I
dont want things to get bad. And then
also she has a problue(sp) with me sitting
on the phone talking to him she things
there something going on! I really dont
get her shje crazy!!
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Re: Need Help With My Mom An Dad!!!! Posted: 11-09-05 17:03pm
mama0789
wrote:
19mommy
wrote:
mama0789
wrote:
please someone help me, ok
heres the story, I went over to my baby
daddy house sunday night and ended up
staying over night. Well my mom says
that wrong, (shes not a god type of
person) and that hes going to jail and all
this. I dont get it all I did was stay
over night there. Whats so wrong about
that??? And by the way in 16 and hes
19(state law here is only 4 years a part)
and were only 2, I dont get it please some
one help.. My mom thinks that were
going back out which I see nothing wrong
with that eather!!
Help!!!!!!!!
well there must be a reason your mom see a
problem with this I see one now. Iff
you guys are suppose to be broken up why
are you over there sleeping? If you
want to get your situation worse then it
is, be responsible. You should have
called to let her know you were staying
the night and if you guys are going back
out inform her. With your story it
seems like your keeping things away from
her and she seems very fed up. I think
you should have a talk with her and let
her know whats up. Because we dont know
your family but you do so you might as
well be open
i stayed the night over there b/c it got
to late at night and he was ready for bed
and I was tired too.. And I would have
called but I knew that I dad wouild get up
and then all hell would have broke lose!
And I cant sit down and talk to her bout
anything, all she do it yell and scream!!
I dont understand why I just cant do what
im going to do, if we do infact get back
2gether then theres nothing she can do b/c
for one we have a baby 2gether and two...
I still have feelings for him and I know
he does for me/, you know what my mom so
crazy that she sliped out b/c o gave him a
hug be4 he left that morning I dont see
nothing worng with that at all... Were
just friends and he is that father of my
son. We have to be nice b/c of the baby
I dont want things to get bad. And then
also she has a problue(sp) with me sitting
on the phone talking to him she things
there something going on! I really dont
get her shje
crazy!!
i hear all that I know mothers tend to be
crazy, but I think there .M.U.S.T be a
reason why she is reacting like this....I
honestly believe in that there must be
more....Why wont she want you and your
baby father to be together? That sounds
rediculous and selfish on her part. But
try talking even if u have to hear screams
remind her that your pregnant and dont
want to be stressed out....Or have a third
neutral party there to keep her from
acting crazy like and aunt or something
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Re: Need Help With My Mom An Dad!!!! Posted: 11-10-05 03:49am
mama0789
wrote:
19mommy
wrote:
mama0789
wrote:
please someone help me, ok
heres the story, I went over to my baby
daddy house sunday night and ended up
staying over night. Well my mom says
that wrong, (shes not a god type of
person) and that hes going to jail and all
this. I dont get it all I did was stay
over night there. Whats so wrong about
that??? And by the way in 16 and hes
19(state law here is only 4 years a part)
and were only 2, I dont get it please some
one help.. My mom thinks that were
going back out which I see nothing wrong
with that eather!!
Help!!!!!!!!
well there must be a reason your mom see a
problem with this I see one now. Iff
you guys are suppose to be broken up why
are you over there sleeping? If you
want to get your situation worse then it
is, be responsible. You should have
called to let her know you were staying
the night and if you guys are going back
out inform her. With your story it
seems like your keeping things away from
her and she seems very fed up. I think
you should have a talk with her and let
her know whats up. Because we dont know
your family but you do so you might as
well be open
i stayed the night over there b/c it got
to late at night and he was ready for bed
and I was tired too.. And I would have
called but I knew that I dad wouild get up
and then all hell would have broke lose!
And I cant sit down and talk to her bout
anything, all she do it yell and scream!!
I dont understand why I just cant do what
im going to do, if we do infact get back
2gether then theres nothing she can do b/c
for one we have a baby 2gether and two...
I still have feelings for him and I know
he does for me/, you know what my mom so
crazy that she sliped out b/c o gave him a
hug be4 he left that morning I dont see
nothing worng with that at all... Were
just friends and he is that father of my
son. We have to be nice b/c of the baby
I dont want things to get bad. And then
also she has a problue(sp) with me sitting
on the phone talking to him she things
there something going on! I really dont
get her shje
crazy!!
wow that sounds exactly like my mom....
I'm 19 and my bf is 23 and I slept over at
his house once and I haven't heard the end
of it since. My mom's all "it's tacky" (i
still live with my parents cuz i'm going
to university) anyways, I dunno why it
matters. It's not like we can do worse
stuff if I spend the night. Like stuff we
already do anyways... Jeez
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mama0789
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 19 Location: blue island IL
Re: Need Help With My Mom An Dad!!!! Posted: 11-10-05 10:07am
19mommy
wrote:
mama0789
wrote:
19mommy
wrote:
mama0789
wrote:
please someone help me, ok
heres the story, I went over to my baby
daddy house sunday night and ended up
staying over night. Well my mom says
that wrong, (shes not a god type of
person) and that hes going to jail and all
this. I dont get it all I did was
stay over night there. Whats so wrong
about that??? And by the way in 16
and hes 19(state law here is only 4 years
a part) and were only 2, I dont get it
please some one help.. My mom thinks
that were going back out which I see
nothing wrong with that eather!!
Help!!!!!!!!
well there must be a reason your mom see a
problem with this I see one now. Iff
you guys are suppose to be broken up why
are you over there sleeping? If you
want to get your situation worse then it
is, be responsible. You should have
called to let her know you were staying
the night and if you guys are going back
out inform her. With your story it
seems like your keeping things away from
her and she seems very fed up. I think
you should have a talk with her and let
her know whats up. Because we dont
know your family but you do so you might
as well be
open
i stayed the night over there b/c it got
to late at night and he was ready for bed
and I was tired too.. And I would have
called but I knew that I dad wouild get up
and then all hell would have broke lose!
And I cant sit down and talk to her bout
anything, all she do it yell and scream!!
I dont understand why I just cant do
what im going to do, if we do infact get
back 2gether then theres nothing she can
do b/c for one we have a baby 2gether and
two... I still have feelings for him
and I know he does for me/, you know what
my mom so crazy that she sliped out b/c o
gave him a hug be4 he left that morning I
dont see nothing worng with that at all...
Were just friends and he is that
father of my son. We have to be nice
b/c of the baby I dont want things to get
bad. And then also she has a
problue(sp) with me sitting on the phone
talking to him she things there something
going on! I really dont get her shje
crazy!!
i hear all that I know mothers tend to be
crazy, but I think there .M.U.S.T be a
reason why she is reacting like this....I
honestly believe in that there must be
more....Why wont she want you and your
baby father to be together? That sounds
rediculous and selfish on her part. But
try talking even if u have to hear screams
remind her that your pregnant and dont
want to be stressed out....Or have a third
neutral party there to keep her from
acting crazy like and aunt or
something
no im not pergo no more my son is born.
The only thing that I can think of is b/c
hes black, hes 19 and im 16, and my mom
dont want us to be2gether but for one she
not going to stop us b/c im going to do
what I want anyway, if were going to be
2gether then thats whats going to happen!
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19mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005 Posts: 179
Re: Need Help With My Mom An Dad!!!! Posted: 11-10-05 11:13am
mama0789
wrote:
19mommy
wrote:
mama0789
wrote:
19mommy
wrote:
mama0789
wrote:
please someone help me, ok
heres the story, I went over to my baby
daddy house sunday night and ended up
staying over night. Well my mom says
that wrong, (shes not a god type of
person) and that hes going to jail and all
this. I dont get it all I did was
stay over night there. Whats so
wrong about that??? And by the way
in 16 and hes 19(state law here is only 4
years a part) and were only 2, I dont get
it please some one help.. My mom
thinks that were going back out which I
see nothing wrong with that eather!!
Help!!!!!!!!
well there must be a reason your mom see a
problem with this I see one now. Iff
you guys are suppose to be broken up why
are you over there sleeping? If you
want to get your situation worse then it
is, be responsible. You should have
called to let her know you were staying
the night and if you guys are going back
out inform her. With your story it
seems like your keeping things away from
her and she seems very fed up. I
think you should have a talk with her and
let her know whats up. Because we
dont know your family but you do so you
might as well be
open
i stayed the night over there b/c it got
to late at night and he was ready for bed
and I was tired too.. And I would have
called but I knew that I dad wouild get up
and then all hell would have broke lose!
And I cant sit down and talk to her bout
anything, all she do it yell and scream!!
I dont understand why I just cant do
what im going to do, if we do infact get
back 2gether then theres nothing she can
do b/c for one we have a baby 2gether and
two... I still have feelings for him
and I know he does for me/, you know what
my mom so crazy that she sliped out b/c o
gave him a hug be4 he left that morning I
dont see nothing worng with that at all...
Were just friends and he is that
father of my son. We have to be nice
b/c of the baby I dont want things to get
bad. And then also she has a
problue(sp) with me sitting on the phone
talking to him she things there something
going on! I really dont get her shje
crazy!!
i hear all that I know mothers tend to be
crazy, but I think there .M.U.S.T be a
reason why she is reacting like this....I
honestly believe in that there must be
more....Why wont she want you and your
baby father to be together? That sounds
rediculous and selfish on her part. But
try talking even if u have to hear screams
remind her that your pregnant and dont
want to be stressed out....Or have a third
neutral party there to keep her from
acting crazy like and aunt or
something
no im not pergo no more my son is born.
The only thing that I can think of is b/c
hes black, hes 19 and im 16, and my mom
dont want us to be2gether but for one she
not going to stop us b/c im going to do
what I want anyway, if were going to be
2gether then thats whats going to
happen!
oh kay sry, I thought I read somewhere you
were pregnant. Do you think she was mad
at you dor leaving because you left the
baby too??? Or shes just being difficult?
I think it could be a bit of both but I
dont kno...Maybe you should bring you son
into the room when you talk to her, let
her look at him and think about him
growing up without a dad. And maybe she
wont scream and yell soo much
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diamondsz
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Joined: 07 Oct 2005 Posts: 3333 Location: , Candyland-Canada
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Posted: 11-10-05 11:57am
If your mom was taking care of the baby
while you slept at his house I full
understand whys she ticked off.....You had
the child its your resposibility, if not
then there is something else going on.
I used to argue with my mom all the time
about who I was dating, the only one I
didnt have trouble with was hubby and some
other guy.
We used to have a rule at my dads even if
we were 18 and we lived under his roof we
had to follow the rules or we could leave
because it is their household and they
didnt have to help me at 18 as im
considered an adult in quebec.
Respect your mom but if she gets out of
hand seek help and shelter
me and my mom are on a really good terms
but thats is because I dont f up all the
time anymore there is still some issues
but they get worked out
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mama0789
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 19 Location: blue island IL
Posted: 11-14-05 11:13am
diamondsz
wrote:
if your mom was taking care
of the baby while you slept at his house I
full understand whys she ticked
off.....You had the child its your
resposibility, if not then there is
something else going on. I used to
argue with my mom all the time about who I
was dating, the only one I didnt have
trouble with was hubby and some other guy.
We used to have a rule at my dads even if
we were 18 and we lived under his roof we
had to follow the rules or we could leave
because it is their household and they
didnt have to help me at 18 as im
considered an adult in quebec.
Respect your mom but if she gets out of
hand seek help and shelter
me and my mom are on a really good terms
but thats is because I dont f up all the
time anymore there is still some issues
but they get worked
out
my mom didnt have my baby I take my son
everywere with me... I never leave him
with anyone unless I have too... But I
had him there with me... If I tryed to
get out and go to a shelter(sp) my mom
would flip ... She told me that she his
leagle(sp) rights over my son thats hes
not really mine till im 18! Yea right...
My dad cuzs told her that... My dad
cuz likes to lay out if ass bout caca just
to get me to belive him, but I never do
b/c I know hes not telling the truth b/c I
told to the cop that work at my high
school and he told me all the stuff they
be telling me is not true!
