Just to be safe, I would definitely get tested.

I doubt that you have hiv because it has to live in a certain temperature and if it is out of that temperature for more than like 7 seconds it dies. I think it is a good idea to get tested, only because "now-a-days" it's a good habbit to get into.

There is only one in a trillion chance that hiv can cross through 1 or more layers of fabric and infect another person. If that was a possiblity, half the population in the world would be infected already. You are not infected and there is no need to get tested.

Chances are your ok. It would take some of her bodily fluids entering your bloodstream to become infected. The chance of that happening based on your story is very slim. And just because she was infected, and came in contact with some of your semen, doesn't mean that it mixed with any of her bodily fluids and then came back in contact with you; which is waht would have needed to happen for you to have become infected.

There is absolutely no way that hiv can be transmitted in this way.

'just to be safe, I would definitely get tested'

on what grounds? Are you suggesting that despite hiv being a virus so fragile that any exposure to the outside world causes its proteins to burst, could suddenly start flying about through clothes? Perhaps a good analogy is a fish. Without water, it can't go anywhere and it soon dies. Put a fish on land and you'll never see it take a walk.

The dynamics of hiv transmission need to involve direct, unexposed contact with the blood stream or mucous membrane. So that I never have to say it again - hiv will not come looking for you, it will not jump onto you and it will not pass through underwear!



'chances are you're ok'

trust me, the question poster is definitely ok as long as his penis did not have direct contact with the vagina.

Sorry, i'm just feeling a little vexed today, but i'm a little tired of people posting things here based on speculation rather than scientific evaluation.

There is no reason to test in your situation. No one has ever aquired hiv from a lap dance. Doesn't matter if you came or you didn't.

There is no reason to test in your situation. No one has ever aquired hiv from a lap dance. Doesn't matter if you came or you didn't.

There is no reason to test in your situation. No one has ever aquired hiv from a lap dance. Doesn't matter if you came or you didn't.