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asked by: rji on November 6th, 2005

New User

This is something that might have been asked before - but since a lot of the cases vary according to specific situations, I wanted to get feedback from someone more aware of the medical facts.

I am 31 yrs old, technically still a virgin - I say technically, because I have been going to stip clubs regularly for the past 1.5 yrs. I usually do not ejaculate from lap dances ( I think that has happened to me 3-4 times) and rarely kiss any females. But the last time I had a few dances, I ended having long kisses with the girl and also ejaculated and noticed a stain (about the size of 2-3 water drops) on my trousers afterwards ( I was wearing boxer shorts underneath). Also, the female continued her dance (she was wearing a flimsy lingerie piece on her bottom).

I have never been tested for any std before and I have never indulged in actual intercourse. The closest I have come to actual sex is lap dances and a couple of hand jobs.

Should I be seriously worried about:
a) stds
b) the dancer getting pregnant

this might sound stupid, but should I be rushing to a test center and/or asking the dancer to take some birth control steps!!!

Replies(3)

cd998776

replied on November 6th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Chances are the stains were just dried semen. There is, of course, always the risk of getting an std when involved in a sexual activity, but chances are since she didn't give you a blowjob, and you didn't have sex with her, that you most likely didn't receive one, but it's always better to be safe than sorry.

HappyHarry

replied on November 7th, 2005

New User

Wow

Your 30 years old and still a virgin? And youve only gone to strip clubs. While you may have gotten stds from that ho who gave you a lap dance, you most likely did not. Secondly it is close to impossible to get a woman pregnant through clothes! You first need to take yourself possibly to a real club and meet some girls, and then get yourself some game and maybe you can actually bring a real girl home with you, that is one that you dont have to pay!

redzonebikes

replied on November 18th, 2005

New User

What are you waiting for in life? Hit the dance clubs or bars everyweekend until you find a girl or many girls and have fun(but be respectful to them). Today maybe your last day and live like it. Iam guessing you have no disabilities, so I dont get it, even if your not good looking, that dosent matter, your personality can win you hundreds of girls as long as you are confident in yourself. Live life to the fullest

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