Me and my boyfriend get along perfectly, we have the same interests and want the same things in life. We planned on getting married some day. We both want to start our lives out early. We have never fought. Our familys are pretty much the same, they would get along perfectly when intruduced most likly. Anyways I really want to have a baby, I know its so hard of work, but I think me and my bf are ready. But he dosnt have a job at the moment, he wants to wait a year. But I dont. I think we ready. I dont want to push him into it because I know it is a huge step, what should I do?
Having a baby is a huge responsability that takes two people to raise, if your partner isn't ready then don't rush him. Just wait a year and see what happens, also you or your partner needs to be working because it costs alot to raise a baby. I don't know where you live if you will get money off the government or anything but its really not that much, but like I said, just wait a while and see where you are in a years time. Good luck. :)
Thanks, I talked to my bf, and he said maybe in a few months. He's going to try and get a job and makesure its a steady one first. I know babies take alot of time and effert and money. I am willing to do. So is my bf. We both know we can do it if we try hard enough. One of my best friends I was talking to last night because I was kind od stressed out is willing to help us if we ever need her, and I know I would loose friends from having a baby because I wont have time for them as much. But I know some of them will always be there.