Hi there. I am 20 years old male and lately I am having an erection problem while with my partner. I smoke cigarettes and drink occasionally, and don’t do drugs! I usually did not have the problem in the beginning, but lately it seems to become a problem.

Me and my partner are sexually active at least once a day. I am struggling to have an erection before sex unless I get a blowjob, but if I do get a blowjob and we are busy having sex, I suddenly looses my erection and this is becoming a problem for me and my partner, and I feel embarrassed!

What can I do to fix this problem? And what are the chances of making my partner pregnant if she is on the pill and I am not using a condom, but I pull out before ejaculation? And if she gets pregnant doing this, what can be done to stop the pregnancy and what time limit is there for it? I know that you can use the "morning after pill" the next morning, but what can you use a few days later?

I know this is a lot of questions, but I will really appreciate your answers!

Thank you!