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Q: Being Too Sexually Active- Is It a Problem?

asked by: carlito on November 5th, 2005

New User

I believe that I am too sexually active and I will explain the reason for this. I have been with my girlfriend now for 3 months and everytime I see her I need to have sex with her. And when I cannot see her on a particular day for example I call up someone else that I know and have sex. I see this as a problem because it is as if I cannot get enough. Sometimes i'd just be sitting at work and I will get that feeling out of nowhere and then I go to the toilet and masterbate.
What does this sound like?
Is this a hormonal imbalance?
Is there some sort of medication to slow me down?

Replies(7)

Tony Williams

replied on November 6th, 2005

Experienced User

No, i'd love to be as sexually active as you, consider yourself lucky.

cd998776

replied on November 6th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

The only problem I can see is that some women might think that they aren't good enough fo you, or that you can't be in a relationship for them, but rather for the sex.

zoidberg

replied on September 9th, 2007

Experienced User

dude i dont call up people to have sex with when my bf/gf arn't there. its not wrong that ur extremly sexually active but what is wrong with you? you know thats a thing called cheating.

Tylanas

replied on September 10th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Yes, I think it's morally wrong that you're having sex with random people when your girlfriend isn't around, unless of course she knows about this and is alright with it. Otherwise, it is morally wrong, and is cheating.

As for being that sexually active, there's nothing wrong with the sex itself. It's just who you're doing it with.

Staocheb

replied on September 11th, 2007

New User

Well... There is a way. Arduous toil.

Georgia59

replied on September 11th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

If you feel that your sexual desire is interfering with your life (which it seems like it might be, since you're fooling around with other women) then it could be considered an addiction.

If this sounds like you, I'd seek the advice of a therapist, who can help you get control over your sex drive.

johnrich

replied on June 8th, 2009

New User

Your problem is not your active sex drive, but how you choose to express it. Unfaithfulness to a steady girlfriend is morally wrong. I too visited the bathroom a lot between the ages of 18-25 when my libido was at its peak, but I never cheated on anyone.

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