Sex Doesn't Feel Good At All

He may be doing it a bit rough...Try using lubricant and a slower motion.
If you masturbate, you can feel what is good and what isn't... Try doing it alone, then with him :)

I suggest masturbating also-he doesn't know what feels good to you if you dont know. Try stimulating yourself. Tell him if it hurts, because he doesn't know. My husband would play with my clit and use the tip of his finger, his nail was hurting me so bad. Finally I told him, that hurts. I told him to use his finger and not the tip; rub soft and slower, not hard and fast. Make sure it is well lubed. If he is rubbing fast and hard without proper lube its like giving it a rug burn. Sometimes men (not all men) can get so nervous and uptight about trying to make you cum that they dont do a good job. It seems like they try to rush to get you close. I tell him what I like and let him know what I don't. I am not laying down for just him, I need pleasing too. Why waste your energy and then get nothing in return.

" I am not laying down for just him, I need pleasing too. Why waste your energy and then get nothing in return. "

well said!!! I agree with everything u said and couldn't have said it better, and also, if you have only had sex 7 times, you may also need to give it some time, give your body some time,.... And find out what really turns you on... Very seldom do my fiance and I have sex and one of us doesn't cum... Good luck!!!

It just makes sex so much better. I masterbate during sex... That way I orgasm everytime for sure :wink: I love to watch my hubby too...I don't know what it is!! Lol!!

Teresa

I am 31 years of age. 3years ago I had one ovary removed because
i had an ovarian cyst. I have had many problems for many years since I had my second child. He is now eleven years old and the problems never go away. I have always gone to the doctors to check the sexual pain that I have during and after intercourse. If I have intercourse today I will become inflamated for two weeks straight non stop maybe even a month sometimes I don't have to have sex and I will have inflamated 1 or twice a month. I have always complained to my gyn doctor
they always run tests and all my tests always come back normal and negative. I am only having sex with one person. And his tests are also good I have never had any sexual transmitted diseases. I have tried different methods like seeking other gyn doctors but all test results are always negative and normal
i am kind of getting scared because I haven't gotten my period now since the ending of march 2005 and I don't seem to get better I still have a lot of pain and I am wondering if I should ask my doctor to remove my uterus because I cannot take the pain anymore and
it has been 11 years with the same pain not to mention that in my family there is a lot of women who have had their uterus removed
what should I do please help

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nobody has told you the real way to get an extreme delicious orgasm to the woman,,,just try this,,,follow this instructions,,...
1)the woman have to laid on one side and lift one leg wide and high,,exposing her vaginal area and her anal area.
2)the man have to hold her lifted leg on one of his shoulder,,and...
3) with his fingertips he will caress and tickle her anal hole and vaginal center area with a lubricant.
4)do that for a while until the woman is very wet and very desperate for intercourse
5)now the man can start penetrating the woman in her vagina slowly,,
but only penetrate the penis head in the vagina several times until she get wildly desperate to be penetrated with his full lenght penis "" do it!!!."
6)this is the most important step,,,,,ok,,,,now while penetrating her vagina,,,the man will tickle and caress her anal hole,,,,also the man can penetrate only one fingertip into her anal hole and unplugin it quickly.
7)by doing this the orgasm on her will be extremely delicious and unforgotable,,,,,she will be extremely hook on this way of having sex,,,that she will be wanting it everyday more and more.

so ive been having sex now for 2 months
and after the first 4 times it stopped hurting but now it doesnt even feel good
is it something im doing wrong or is he doing wrong or what?
please help me.
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It sounds like you're doing it very wrong, yes... Check out some of the advice in these topics.

ive been having sex with my boyfriend for almost three months now. we've done it alot, but i still cant cum without playing with myself at the same time.
i do the same thing with sometimes... faking it... cuz i know that he would be super dissapointed if he couldnt get me there. it does feel good, but i cant get there.
he does try to make it go really fast tho.. he doesnt last super long. especially when he really really wants.

Most women can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation. You're totally normal.

If it hurts, then either something is wrong with how you're doing it:

1. Not enough foreplay
2. Not enough lube
3. Him being too rough
4. You being too nervous

Or, there's something actually "wrong" with your vagina. You may have one of several conditions that are mentioned around this forum. I don't know their names off the top of my head.

it doesnt hurt, it just doesnt feel good.
kinda like a neautral feeling.

Well the advice above should still help. A truly "numb" vagina is extremely rare - I've never heard of one.

its weird its not pain nor pleasure its like i dont feel anything at all.

Well, do you masturbate? Do you know your own body and what gives you pleasure? You may actually be feeling pleasure and simply don't know how to interpret it because you don't know what it feels like.

Trust me, I am 99.9% sure you can indeed feel a penis sliding in and out of your vagina.

hi im 18. ive been having sex for 2 years with my bf. when we first started having sex it always hurt, obviously. now when we have sex it always hurts and im very tight, then it stops hurting but i dont feel anythin except for his penis going in and out. hes tried fingering me but that has the same problem. ive tried fingering myself but it doesnt feel good.

anyway...i love oral so theres no problem with that but does anyone have any advice about sex or know i i have a condition or anything? thanks

-sexually deprived kate