Ok this is not wat ur thinking im not pregnant im still a virgin. Ok I started my period like last year ok. Well last time I had it was march and im irregular like my mom only my mom was put on the pill which I have no prob with its I rather wait to see if it become regular or not well I have wait til now (8 mos. ) since I had my last period and I heard that you can at least miss it for a whole year is that true . The longest I have gone besides this time was like 3 mos. Plus since my mom had breast cancer I have to get a mamogram done and a pap. Im just scared bc im like a lil insecure about my body. I know I can get a female doctor but I dont know I just dont feel confortable can someone please help me. Should I wait for my period or go get a pap. I have had some cramp pains I guess in my abdomenal area. Should I be concerned about anything???