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Q: Please Help Us!!! Please
asked by: htoudiee on November 3rd, 2005
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I'm tired of thinking... Please help!!!! I've been feeling that my gf's feelings are fading for me... I told her this last night while we had an argument and I just found out (i still called her) that she took in backwards as she thought I said my feelings are fading for me (not what I meant). I made sure that she now knows I said it the other way. She said she has to go (she works, so do i) which is totally understandable but now, what do I expect? She didn't even make the effort to say "no, my feeling aren't fading" or anything. I understand she's in work place and maybe can't talk like that but what would you do if you bf told you how he felt and he feels that you're not paying attention to him and that your feelings look like fading for him? What would you do?
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funfearlessfemale
replied on November 16th, 2005
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Trust Your Instincts
I have been there before. I have always been the type of woman that when I fall I fall hard and give 100% to the relationship. My most recent relationship has been crazy and I finally ended it alst night when he showed up drunk at 330 am after not calling me all day. This same man before, I asked him if his feelings were fading and he kind of let it rub of his shoulders. He asked me the same thing and I swore it was not fading at all. I would think that if your woman is not really trying to talk to you, and is putting everything back on you then maybe you are right. If you are a good guy and there is not that much time invested, I would move on now before its harder for you too then it will already be.
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czarg
replied on January 13th, 2006
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Follow Yr Heart.
Sometimes we stay in a relationship because we know the value we see from the other partner, so we forgive their wrongs and overlook some. But when we know that the future could hold a bitter taste the we have to be straight up and reason properly.

I have been there b4 too. I felt I was fed up and so on but I stayed in bcuz I knew I might not find such highly valuable woman;that not withstanding, we broke in the end, like 8 months now.

Summarily, you just have to own up to yrself and be real. What do you want? What do you see? What lies ahead? You must protect yr happiness in the end. Never compromise that.

Sam
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1helpme1
replied on January 15th, 2006
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Im in the same boat. The only diffrence is the woman im seeing is marryed. She says she's getting a devoric I beleave her since I went to the laweryers with her. Last night we had a big fight and I said things to her that I really didn't mean. We talked for a little bit today. Now im the one that is in the shitter. Us guys can never get things out the way we mean it. Thats one of down falls. The only thing I can say to you if ou feel for each other then the talk is not over and you need to talk frm the heart. Send her flowers and vise a vers. If you love each other then theres nothing that can get in the way. You just need to learn how to talk things out.
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