I try not to post and just get my answers from others posts so there are not a lot of repeat questions but I am not seeing my question or answer so I hope someone out there can help.

My husband and I have been trying for about 4 months or so now and we have had no luck:( this month my period was supposed to start on the 30th of october and when I didn't get it I got really excited but didnt' say anything to my husband because I couldn't bare to tell him again that we were not preg. Then on the 31st I spotted but not very much and it really didn't look or feel like my period. (my husband noticed that I started my period... So he thought) but I still didn't say anything then on the 1st and 2nd I got really bad cramps never before felt this bad I was in :tears: but go a med. Flow of my period (which I am still confused if that was even my period) and on top of it my husband is getting worried thinking he is infertal and I don't know how to calm him down. Then last night I got really sick what I think is the flew (i work with kids in a school and they are all sick) now today the 3rd I called in sick to work assuming I have the flu but am feeling better and my period is little to no spotting again.

So I guess what my question is could I be preg. Even if I have no other symptoms but my really strange period?
And does anyone have any ideas how do get my husband to relax and stop thinking that he is the reason we are not preg.

Sorry for the long post but I hope someone out there has a new idea for my thanks for letting me talk:)

rocks