Teen Pregnancy Forum - 15 & Pregnant to

Look I have been reading what all the girls have been telling every one give up your baby or you dont' know how to take care of a baby or what are your parents gonna say thats bull s#!* its not your place to tell them what to do I am 40 weeks pregnant today and I didn't tell my parents till I was 5 months and I live with my mom and she was devistated and my dad said that I needed to throw my baby in a trash can well then 2 weeks later they came to reality after yelling at me for two weeks straight and they are both helping me in any and every way that they can and I am not with the babys daddy hes 18 and I dont' care about him any more he cheated on me with my 14 year old cousin his mom hates me because im white and she don't belive in mixing races or what ever so young girls can do it I did it well not delivery yet but I know that I can just have faith in your self and dont' let other people put you down

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BareBackJack

replied on November 3rd, 2005

New User

Amen

Excellent point. You can't generalize everyone into one catergory. It may be a struggle, but young moms stilll have a fighting chance.
Glad to hear your parents came around, now i'm not so scared to tell mine...I know they'll freak, but hopefully they'll come to their senses too
best of luck with your pregnancy
jackie
xox

oh_mommy

replied on November 5th, 2005

Supporter

Yeah telling your parents can be scary. It would be differnt if u were marriedfor a year or two then your parents would be way more accepting, but if you a teen living at home your parents freak. If I end up being preg, my dad will freak but not say much, its my grandparents who will bite my head off, as for my mom I think she will be the most accepting of my family. I know my brothers will also yell at me. As for my bf's family, that just scares me even more

Baby_Girl12306

replied on November 6th, 2005

New User

Im in the same situation as you are im fifteen but I am 29 weeks I am still with my babys daddy but for me to tell my parents I didnt tell them that I was pregnant til I was 5 months pregnant because thats when I started to show good luck to you if you need any one to talk to im here because I get the situation that you are in

ryansmommy16

replied on November 6th, 2005

Experienced User

Hi. Everybody my name is tiffany and I have a 7 month old. He was born april 6, 2005. I have now found myself pregnant again. I was on birth control but I had to stop because it made me so moody and sick. So as soon as I was able to make another doctors appointment for another kind I found myself pregnant. Today I am 11 weeks. I got pregnant with my first when I was 15 I had him at 16. I am now 16 I will be 17 dec. 8. Being a young mom has been hard but also joyful. I love my son with all my heart and I know I would have never been able to give him up or abort him. But hey i'm running around in circles what I started writing for is to tell all of you pregnant or new teen moms there is a great yahoo support group that you should join. I love all the girls on there.

CHERYLANNB

replied on November 6th, 2005

New User

Re: 15 & Pregnant to

kimwall27606 wrote:

look I have been reading what all the girls have been telling every one give up your baby or you dont' know how to take care of a baby or what are your parents gonna say thats bull s#!* its not your place to tell them what to do I am 40 weeks pregnant today and I didn't tell my parents till I was 5 months and I live with my mom and she was devistated and my dad said that I needed to throw my baby in a trash can well then 2 weeks later they came to reality after yelling at me for two weeks straight and they are both helping me in any and every way that they can and I am not with the babys daddy hes 18 and I dont' care about him any more he cheated on me with my 14 year old cousin his mom hates me because im white and she don't belive in mixing races or what ever so young girls can do it I did it well not delivery yet but I know that I can just have faith in your self and dont' let other people put you down

go to barnes n noble.Com, buy the book by laura schlessinger "stupid things parents do to mess up their kids", I think you'll like it.

michelle1981

replied on November 6th, 2005

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Re: 15 & Pregnant to

cherylannb wrote:

go to barnes n noble.Com, buy the book by laura schlessinger "stupid things parents do to mess up their kids", I think you'll like it.

chery.... Eat sh*t k!!!

michelle1981

replied on November 6th, 2005

Supporter

Re: 15 & Pregnant to

kimwall27606 wrote:

you can do it hun... Be proud of yourself.... Don't let anyone bring you down :)

Kimwall27606

replied on November 22nd, 2005

New User

Thanks

Thanks 2 every1 that posted I had my baby nov. 6 he weighed 7lbs 5 oz it was not as painfull as I thought it would be I had no pain meds. I got there at 8am and had him at 10:16 am when I got there I was dialted 8cm so if you want pain meds. Go when you start having contractions well..... I didn't even know that they were contractions ....I was only pushing for 5 mins. Only 5 pushes when they tell you to push make sure you push during a contraction and push till you can't breath no more thats what I did and belive me it worked so if you need any advice or have any questions pm me, and thanks again

CASEY217

replied on November 22nd, 2005

New User

Hey...

This is for kimwall...How did you gather up the courage to tell your parents??? Im 16 and about 1 and 1/2 months pregnant (as far as I know) and I really dont know what to say. I still havent decided if I want to keep the baby or not (i know my boyfriend doesnt want me to but yea...). I dont think I can go through an abortion. I really feel strong about keeping this baby. But yea...I just dont know how to go about telling my parents. I dunno how all you gurls have gathered up the courage to tell them?? Please...Write back.

Kayla

Audrie

replied on November 22nd, 2005

New User

Hey im about 25 weeks and I didnt tell anyone until I was about 4 1/2 months. I was scared to tell my family which who took it really good. And im with my baby's daddy and his family was not so shocked about it neither. Well we've been together off and on for about 3 years, so I think that broke the ice!!! If yall need anythinkg just tell me!!

diamondsz

replied on November 22nd, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Congrats!!!!

Yeah the pain isnt as bad as everyone usually makes it sounds, good luck and try to get as much sleep as possible, it is possible and power nap if you can any sleeps helps!!!

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